(Closed) Is this the norm for bachelorettes now?!

posted 4 years ago in Parties
Post # 76
485 posts
Helper bee

Unless it’s a situation where the bride (or whom ever is planning) is 100% certain that everyone involved can comfortably afford it, I think it’s very inconsiderate to request anything involving airfare. To request that the brides expenses are paid for in full by her attendants is also freaking ridiculous. As a bride, I would feel way too guilty to ever allow that to happen. Paying for the brides dinner/drinks during a night out on the town is one thing, but covering her costs for a full weekend getaway? Nope. Bottom line, some brides are considerate and actually THINK about the situation they are putting their friends in and others aren’t.

Post # 77
235 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

Gee I didn’t know this is the norm. I didn’t have a bach party and i’ve only been to one other one and it was just a wine tour with a bunch of girls. 

My husband however had 3 bach parties in the past that was similar…long weekend away, had to buy plane tix etc. I guess it depends on the person. My husband wouldn’t have had anything like that and neither would I if we had actually had a wedding. 

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