Is this the right thing?

posted 3 years ago in Engagement
Post # 2
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2018

Um, no. The only mistake you made was staying with a cheating asshole for five years. Clearly all he does is lie and cheat, and that 100% will never change. Block his number and remove all contact from him on social media. If you go back to him, it will be exactly the same. That is NOT what you want in a husband (or a best friend IMHO). 

Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2018

 Oops, just saw this was a double post. I’ll make this comment on your other one. ^^

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2018

Only you can make that choice. 

Is it possible to rebuild a relationship after multipul infidelities? Yes. But is is also very very difficult and both parties need to be on the same page about it and both work towards rebuildings. 

Is it possible that walking away is the best thing for you? Yes. But it isn’t easy. 

You need to decide…
1) What will you put up with?
2) Will he truly help you rebuild the trust and relationship?

Post # 5
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Bumble bee

I think this is a dupe post but everyone agrees that you made the right decision. He’s a serial cheater/you deserve better. 

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

Lack of trust and infidelity would be a major deal breaker for me.  He’s a serial cheater on you and unlikely to change. You deserve someone who you trust unconditionally who isn’t running around behind your back. You should block all his contact info.  

Post # 7
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2018

I completely agree with peaceberhejourney, I’m so sorry that you have wasted 5 years of your life bee, someone like that doesn’t even deserve your attention. All he’s done is treat you like a piece of garbage, you don’t deserve to be cheated on over and over and underestimated like this. Breaking your relationship with this motherfucker is the best thing you could’ve done for yourself. You are unique and beautiful and there will be men out there begging for you to be the one for them. Don’t you ever settle for someone that treats you like shit! It’s his loss, not yours. Be strong now and happiness will come to you sooner than later. Xx

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