Post # 1
My bridal shower is next week, and my wedding is next month. We’ve started to receive some presents in the mail. I know that the first present was for the shower. I’m not sure about the other two gifts – are they for the shower or the wedding? I opened one notecard today: it was addressed to both of us and signed by the couple. I am pretty sure that she is attending my shower. I am on the fence about unwrapping them. What would you do?
Post # 3
Are you close enough to this person to call and at least verbally let them know the gift has arrived and thank them? This might provide a clue!
Post # 4
Does it matter? Either way, you’d be sending a thank you. I guess you could wait until after the wedding, to see if the person gives you another gift??
Post # 5
If they haven’t RSVP’d, just write a note thanking them for the thoughtful and generous gift and say you look forward to them sharing your special day.