Post # 1
My fiance has 3 bridesmaids (1 Maid/Matron of Honor and 2 bridesmaids). However, on my side, I have 7 total (1 best man and 6 groomsmen). Is this too uneven? Should I remove some from my side to even it out some more? I do no want to ask her to add more to her side because I know that is all she wants. What are your thoughts?
Post # 3
I think the test for deciding who to choose is whether you close to these 7 people. Can you say that 20 years from now looking at your wedding pics, you will still be close with them?
Post # 4
I personally dont have an issue with uneven sides but Fiance does. What about making some of the guys ushers instead of groomsmen? That way they’re still involved in the wedding but your bmaids/groomsmen will be even…
Post # 5
We are having only one on each side because we don’t have many people close to us but there are pleanty of people who have them uneven. It’s not only her day…it’s also yours. As long as you two are happy it doesn’t matter how many people are on which side.
Post # 6
I am an even kind of girl — maybe you could have three of them be ushers?
Post # 7
I think that’s fine. If you want them all then oh well.