(Closed) Is this weird??

posted 5 years ago in Music
Post # 3
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Honey bee

The first dance is normally just with the couple. You should choose whatever song you want.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011 - Florida Aquarium

No– I think you can still do the traditional dances even if others may not want to dance.

Post # 5
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I don’t think it’s weird at all! I’m not sure if very many of our guests are going to dance, but we’re still going to play songs on a playlist throughout and do our first dance, father/daughter dance, etc. It’s a special part of the day (at least to me), and I think you’ll definitely regret it more if you don’t do your first dance just because nobody else is dancing! 🙂

Post # 6
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Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2013

If the song is perfect then use it! The day is all about you guys. I don’t know if I’ve ever been to a wedding where everyone else dances with the bride and groom during their “special dance”…

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

I may have missed something but as far as I’m aware it should only be the bride and groom dancing during the first dance anyway, so just play whatever you want ^^

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Dance your heart away as husband and wife!  Your guests will enjoy watching your first dance even if they won’t be dancing throughout the night.  What song? 

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo

It’s not weird, and you deserve to have a first dance (and all dances afterward!) even if no one else wants to dance at all.  Go for it!

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@mariahcolleen    Listened to it!  Love it.  Dance away!!!

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@mariahcolleen:  Most people understand it is a key moment at a wedding.  Maybe if you are worried about a awkward moment afterwards where people will wonder if they are supposed to dance, do it before you cut the cake.  Then you move right on to other activities.

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