Post # 1
I’m just curious to hear what other people think about this topic.
There is NO WAY my Fiance is allowed to see my dress before the big day! But there’s always that thought in the back of my mind, ‘what if he doesn’t like it like I had hoped he would?’ But I doubt this would actually happen (I hope! Lol)
What do you think ladies? I want to hear your thought processes and stories!
Post # 3
@KsoontobeN: I’ve been with Fiance for almost nine years…not too many surprises to be had these days so I am going to milk this one!!
Post # 4
I kept it in my closet at our house. He had a vague idea that it was Champagne colored and he was happy it wasn’t strapless lol. He didn’t see it and swore he hadn’t peaked. When I saw him down the aisle I knew he hadn’t peaked 😀
Post # 5
No way! We get so few surprises in life anymore.
Post # 6
NO WAY! He will not see it until either our first look or I walk down the aisle.
Post # 7
I reeeeeally want to show him, but he is adamant about being surprised on the wedding day. I’m hoping he gets teary-eyed at the altar, so, I am obliging him 🙂
Post # 8
If he wanted to, I’d let him see it. He has no desire to see it or really anything else wedding related.
Post # 9
No, but that was HIS choice. I didn’t care either way. He was adamant at he know nothing about it
Post # 10
I’m not planning on him seeing the dress, because I’m traditional and I want to surprise him but in a way I would like him to see it so I can be sure he’ll love it!
Post # 11
He saw model pics already because I wanted to be sure he would like it. And will likely see the dress, because we live together and I don’t care that much to go to great lengths to hide it. But he won’t see me wearing it until wedding day.
Post # 13
- Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA
@Birdi: haha, same here except like 12 years! Plus he wants to be surprised – adorable
Post # 14
My Fiance is incredibly traditional…he actually doesn’t want to see it until our big day 😉
That being said…he knows the color and he knows its poofy lol but thats it!
i tried explaining the history behind the cant see the dress tradition, but he still refused, oh well, only 2.5 months so thats not too long
Post # 15
@lolot: Wow! good for you guys! I don’t know about you but this is my second marriage and I finally feel happy.:) He surprises me all the time and I’m really looking forward to his face when he sees me in my dress.
Post # 16
I love reading everyone’s replies! I think it’s sweet that some of the men want you to keep it a secret! Mine tries to trick me into telling him about it and giving away some of the details. Luckily I catch his tricks 😛