(Closed) Is your FI going to wear a ring?

posted 8 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

Yup, he only takes it off to work out.  I understand the mechanic thing though, that can be dangerous!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

He thinks it’s going to be weird, but I pretty much told him he had to, and that he will get used to it.  I don’t wear much jewelry either, so I’m still getting used to my e-ring!  But I really think once he gets used to it, it won’t be a problem.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Yep, once it goes on it’s never coming off!

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

My FH is going to wear his. I’d be upset with him if he didn’t.

However, in your case: it’s totally understandable! I know a mechanic that actually wears his on a chain, under his clothes & overalls. I hear that even that can get risky.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Yep.

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

Yes he is! 

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee

yup! the boy is really looking forward to wearing a ring and makes the occasional comment about it every once and again. i think it’s so cute.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee

I could understand why your Fiance wouldn’t want to wear a ring.  I’ve heard of instances where mechanics have rings “tattoed” on .  .  ,

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

He will if he knows what’s good for him. 😉

Post # 12
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

agree withsoon2bemrsc…. he’d better lol

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

My Fiance will wear his ring…he is actually excited about it. I didn’t force the issue, he actually considered it a non-issue…like of COURSE I am wearing a ring.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Darling Husband was totally opposed to wearing a ring all the time.  He said he would exchange them and wear it socially…but b/c of his job which is a lot of working with his hands he didn’t want to wear one all the time.  I didn’t press it, but he totally about faced on it after our wedding.  He doesn’t sleep in it (neither do I), but it’s literally the first thing he reaches for in the morning.  Even I don’t always put it on first thing!

I think the mechanic thing is pretty understandable.  YOu might consider a more durable material (fizicGuy’s is titanium).  And though we did not do this, advice I got from another married guy who can’t wear his ring while working was to get two.  Apparently his wife did this…she keeps the one they exchanged in a safe and he wears a second b/c she knows he’s liable to lose it 🙂

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Fiance and I had this conversation the other day.  He doesn’t think he’ll wear his ring much because he thinks he works with his hands too much.  I started laughing at him and reminded him he worked a bank. 

Both my dad and his dad do not wear their wedding bands.  I don’t think I’ll be offended if he doesn’t wear it, but I would prefer he does.

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I don’t think he’ll wear his most of the time (hopefully for special occasions at least).  He isn’t a “jewelry” guy – he doesn’t even wear a watch.  Also neither of our dads (both still married) wears one.  I asked him whether he even wants one if he’ll rarely wear it, and he said he does want to have one.

It’s not that big a deal to me.  It would be kind of cool if he wore it but it’s not something I’d make an issue of.

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