(Closed) Is your fiance the best sexual partner you’ve ever had?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 4
3667 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

SO is definitely the best. However, I’ve dated mostly women before SO (who is a man) and while I don’t reminisce about a specific person from my past, I occasionally just miss the feel of being with a woman. I don’t think either of us would be into a threesome, though.

Post # 5
548 posts
Busy bee

I would say that Boyfriend or Best Friend is the best sex I’ve had, but a number of my experiences before Boyfriend or Best Friend were unhealthy. Boyfriend or Best Friend makes me feel safe and complete emotionally, and we have amazing chemistry. 

Post # 6
33 posts
  • Wedding: December 2012

Fiance is by far the best i’ve ever had! I’ve done things with him that i’ve never thought of doing with anyone else. He makes me feel completely confortable with myself and he brings out the tiger in me =)

Post # 7
502 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I’m in the same boat, but maybe 1-2x per month…

Post # 8
1526 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

No!  Not even close.

I had a similar experience though.  My ex and I had a really volatile relationship to go along with the passion.  I would choose comfort, security, trust, and love any day over a douchebag who is awesome in bed.

Although, it would be REALLY NICE to have both!

Post # 9
3357 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Darling Husband is the only one I’ve been with so I have nothing to compare against, but I must say that I do enjoy being with him.

Post # 10
4324 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

@sassylibrarian: I’m in the same boat as you. Ex was a douchebag, but man…. I do still fantasize about the calibre sex we used to have, but on the whole, my Darling Husband is amazing in every other way the stupid ex is not. I appreciate the value in that. 

Post # 11
2273 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

By far… He is the only one that has made me feel special, cherished, loved and sexy – I never realised what I was lacking in my past relationships until I met FI 

Post # 12
4464 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Both my husband and I were virgins when we got married so I can’t tell your about actual sex. As far as the other stuff besides sex he definitely is. Past hook ups have been so sloppy and didn’t know what they were doing.

Post # 13
2725 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Yes and no.

In love making-absolutely. I have never felt so close to anyone. Ever. I am not a cryer but sometimes with him I do!

In crazy animalistic sex…sometimes. I have an ex (our relationship was solely based upon physical attraction and sex) that I think about from time to time that was better in this arena. 

That being said, I would take DH’s love making any day over crazy sex with ex. Like PP, I didn’t realize what I was missing in sex until him.

Post # 14
750 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Yes, Fiance is the best by far. We’ve been together almost 3 years and I still want him as much as I did at the start. We usually keep it to 4-6 x a week and he never fails to get me off multiple times. My ex was my first and I had nothing to compare it to now that I do I know it was lacking. I don’t think he has to be the best but I think you should be satisfied. If you’re not maybe you could talk to him about ways you could both spice things up.

Post # 15
1623 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Yes, Fiance is the best by far.  For me I think it has to do with becoming more comfortable with myself/my body as I got older, and not being afraid to share what I like and what’s not my favorite.  The orgasms are unbelievable but I also don’t hold back at all while we are messing around/having sex.

Do you talk/share what you like with your SO?  I would definitely recommend speaking up or just letting loose (as far as noises, etc.) if you are comfortable in doing that.  Either way, like PPs said, if your relationship is solid and you both are at least content enough with your sex life (where neither is tempted to stray) then I think that is just as healthy as the next…different things work for different people. 🙂

Post # 16
2747 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Hell yesssss! =D…

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