(Closed) Is your fiancee the best lover you’ve ever had?

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Do you have the best sex you've had in your life with your current fiance, husband or BF?
    Yes, the best EVER! : (206 votes)
    57 %
    One of the best : (80 votes)
    22 %
    Sex is ok with my him, but I've had way better sex with others : (63 votes)
    17 %
    He's not very good in bed, but he makes up for it in so many ways : (13 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 32
    2206 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I’m with dana. I “dated” a guy for a few weeks who was AMAZING. But he also had the emotional maturity of a 14 year old. Seriously, I only lasted past the second date because he rocked my socks.

    IMO, compatability (in and out of bed) is much more important than raw skill, so it isn’t as if I’m ever longing for immature dude.

    Post # 33
    63 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    He’s definitely the best because I don’t have anyone to compare him to haha. He’s the only one I’ve ever slept with and vice versa ( :

    Post # 34
    7770 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Fiance is the best ever, but some others were better at certain things.  Overall, it is the best with him, though- hands down.

    Post # 35
    7052 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    First of all I’m an encore bride so he is obviously not my first.

    Now I have been a bit selective in my lifetime, but can say he’s the best!  Definitely not a selfish kind of guy.  ๐Ÿ˜‰ 

    Post # 36
    2186 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    lol well to be honest, my best ever was similar to @monitajb experience – he wasnt a steady or anything but had the maturity of a teenager, so the ONLY reason i kept him around was for booty calls.

    but what i have with FH is wayyy better than that for other reasons ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 37
    790 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I wish my Fiance was my best, he’s good, great at times but not my best. But he definatley makes up for it

    Post # 38
    379 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I’m with “danadelphia” ……I can’t say he is my best.. I had one guy and no one has been able to compare but that was all he and I had in common. With my Fiance I have soooo much more! I certainly have no complaints with FI and it keeps getting better.

    Post # 39
    268 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Wow, I’m clearly the one bumping up the “average partners” numbers! (Although, on that note, I once knew a really lovely guy who’d been seriously messed up by the woman he wanted to marry ditching him so she could find out what sex with other guys was like. I wish I could have told her that I’d slept with those other guys, and they’re really not that great!)

    But my fiance was far and away the best, right from the very start, no teaching required ๐Ÿ˜‰ 

    Post # 40
    561 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    Definitely the best.  I had sex with a handful of people before but when we had sex (the first time and every time after) it was ridiculous.  I thought he was some sexual ninja and always had such wonderful sex but he said it was extra special and different fot him too.  

    Post # 41
    5496 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2010

    Definately the best! ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 42
    831 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Definitely the best!

    Post # 43
    9 posts
    • Wedding: May 2010

    I have only had three (my ex of 22yrs, transition guy and now my husband-to-be {in just 8 days!!}).  My guy is SO generous and good at everything (I never even thought anyone could be that good with his hands!).  He is also a fabulous kisser (I missed that BAD in my first marriage).  We are so well-matched for kissing, sometimes I wish it would go on longer . . .  but it does always lead to more fun things.

    Post # 44
    4544 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    The best! I think the emotional bond adds so many dimensions to the sex and elevates it to a totally new level!

    Post # 45
    990 posts
    Busy bee

    My Fiance is awesome, talented and incredible. The most caring and loving man a girl could ask for, and very willing to compensate…but not the best unfortunately…

    My best was my FWB in college, he was…something else and we did things that Jenna Jameson couldnt shake a stick at, the true definition of lust

    But the Fiance is very good at many other things, and the emotional bond is intense and makes everything so much more, ahhhhhhh

    Post # 46
    1270 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    I only slept with one other person before him, and it was horrible.

    So he is definitely the best ever!

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