(Closed) Is your fiancee the best lover you’ve ever had?

posted 10 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Do you have the best sex you've had in your life with your current fiance, husband or BF?

    Yes, the best EVER!

    One of the best

    Sex is ok with my him, but I've had way better sex with others

    He's not very good in bed, but he makes up for it in so many ways

  • Post # 47
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    tammyt1112, me too!!!

    Post # 48
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2010

    I love my FI!

    Post # 49
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    i’m like dana – he’s definitely not the best. or even second best. he’s still awesome as a sexual partner, don’t get me wrong. but he’s not nearly as adventurous as other guys i’ve been with, which is fine (and i’m not bored by means either). i also feel like with other guys that i feel were “better” than him, i had a purely sexual connection with them. not sure why that would necessarily make a difference, but that seems to be a common thread.

    Post # 50
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    yeah i’m going to go a little bit against the grain in a few ways. definitely not my first (gosh, some of you girls make me feel quite “experienced” ๐Ÿ™‚ and even though he is the first to give me an orgasm, i think i have had different connections with different people and that leads to some steamier moments. sooo, no. not the best. but he DOES make up for it ten fold.

    Post # 51
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Definitely not my first, but for SURE the best.

    Post # 52
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    Bumble bee

    Not my first, but definitely the best. It just keeps getting better (even if the quantity’s not quite what it used to be!)

    Post # 53
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2017

    Not my first, or 2nd ๐Ÿ˜› but he is the best for sure. I thought my first boyfriend was the greatest love ever, then I was with my Fiance and I had noo idea what I was missing! We’re alot more comfortable together which makes things more fun.

    Post # 54
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    Helper bee

    Yes, he is the best, it’s way better than with the other guys I’ve been with ๐Ÿ˜€ I never really used to enjoy sex much before I met him, but with him it’s incredible.

    Post # 55
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    its funny how Fiance asked me a while back and i told him that he became the best lover ivwe ever had. when we started having sex he was good but not amazing. over time he would start asking me how i liked it and would do things that left me breathless. so now i am proud to say that he is the best i’ve ever had. everytime we do it, it feels AMAZING! sorry if TMI!

    Post # 56
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    p.s. make sure Fiance doesn’t snoop in and read this. HEY THERE, BABE. ๐Ÿ˜›

    Post # 57
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2009

    I dated quite a bit in my twenties and I had my share of FWBs. While I’ve never thought about ranking them, there are definitely a few standouts from my single girl days. But my husband is hands down the best kisser ever ever EVER, has me weak in the knees, ready to fall over when he kisses me! This thread is entertaining, but it also kind of makes me wonder if my husband has ranked the girls in his past. I’m sure that I’ve been with more people but I don’t ever ever see them, while he’s still acquainted with some of the girls I know he’s slept with. Ugh. Now I’ll be thinking about that all day.

    Post # 58
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    Def. The best!! It’s not really like i can compare (well, kind of… its complicated) but he is THE BEST! We’re on a LDR so when we’re together we just go crazy and it is AWESOME!!

    Post # 59
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

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    @danadelphia: I’m with you! Being completely honest, my fiance isn’t the best I’ve had. There’s something about a fling that always makes sex the best! But my fiance is the first that has made sure that I was enjoying it as well, was comfortable, etc. I think that that makes sex much more personal and filled with connection.  

    Post # 60
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I am an encore bride, however, my Fiance is by far the best I have ever had! He has done things to me I didn’t even know were possible. No wonder he had exes still calling him when we first started talking. LOL

    Post # 61
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    everyone seems to be saying their husband/FI/SO is the best and they’ve only been with 1 or 2 other people…well, i’ve been with quite a few more than that…even though i throughly enjoy sex with my DH, and the sex is awesome, he’s not the best sex i’ve ever had, but it’s defiently the most meaningful, and that’s what matters to me.  he’s going to be the man i grow old with, the father of my children someday, and i don’t want anyone else.

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