(Closed) Is your fiancee the best lover you’ve ever had?

posted 11 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Do you have the best sex you've had in your life with your current fiance, husband or BF?

    Yes, the best EVER!

    One of the best

    Sex is ok with my him, but I've had way better sex with others

    He's not very good in bed, but he makes up for it in so many ways

  • Post # 77
    288 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Oh yeah, he is THEE BEST!

    Post # 78
    1663 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    My Fiance is definitely the best!!!

    Post # 79
    402 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    Yes.  By far.  I’m very honest in this department.  In fact, I clearly didn’t marry him for money (make twice as much as he does and own real estate, etc.), and sometimes I think the physical/intimate connection was… well… a big factor! (too big)?!

    Post # 80
    41 posts
    • Wedding: April 2011

    he’s absolutely the best, and was from the very beginning.  we just fit together in a way i’ve never experienced with anyone before.  our first time together was a total ah-HA! moment for the two of us, though we’d both had several (ahem) prior partners.

    when you find someone who you share amazing chemistry with, and all of your sexual preferences match up and play off each other perfectly and you also have an intense emotional/spiritual connection…well, we both knew early on that we were well suited for each other, and that feeling has only intensified with time.   

    Post # 81
    1927 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    He’s the best… but he is also the only.

    Post # 82
    2319 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Fiance definitely has been the best. It helped a lot that he was so open to ideas and just listening to what I have to say which made the sex life a whole lot more worthwhile.

    Post # 83
    1267 posts
    Bumble bee

    View original reply


    View original reply

    Mine’s a runner too….;)


    He is the best of the rest, for sure.  There will be past lovers that were really good at one thing and maybe not as good as another, or ones that were super passionate or super unselfish – but my guy is the total package becuase he’s good at all of that! 🙂

    Not to sound bishy or rude, but for those that have never been with anyone else, you can’t really have a best if you have an only!  It’s like me saying that Bud is the best beer but I’ve only ever had Bud! lol – doesn’t mean you’re not all having awesome sex but it’s one of those little things that you’ll never know…..and shouldn’t matter to you!

    Post # 84
    1126 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    He’s the best ever, not because he’s the best (although he’s pretty damn good), but because sex is consistantly good, because it’s lighthearted and loving and trusting, and because when we lock eyes it throws me into mental orgasms better than the physical ones any other guy has given me.

    If I wasn’t madly in love with him, I would’ve voted the second option.  But the love thing definitely makes it the best ever.

    Post # 86
    3866 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Ok, so, I’ve only had two lovers, but he’s the best ever!  Three if you include “foreplay”.  He’s the best kisser, too, and I’ve got more for comparisons on the kissing department… 

    And yeah, he’s said I’m the best ever, too, and he MEANS it!  (I’m one of VERY few who can make him blush frequently, too!)  

    Post # 87
    429 posts
    Helper bee

    only one i slpt with.

    Post # 88
    77 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I would say that he wasn’t the BEST, but he is the BEST one for me. He is not my first partner, or second, or third…..but we love each other and it is so different than anything else I have ever had. My fiancee is the second longest relationship I’ve ever had besides my very first bf when I was 17. Sex has been much more exciting with others, and it’s easy to take for granted what is lying right next to you every night. He is the only man I’ve been with that can give me an oragasm almost every time…( wink wink)

    So I guess the answer to the question is that it’s not better or worse, but definitely different because it’s the man that you are going to love forever.

    The topic ‘Is your fiancee the best lover you’ve ever had?’ is closed to new replies.

    Find Amazing Vendors