Post # 1
hey ladies, this question just dawned on me and i wondered if anyone else felt the same as i do. my bf is pretty quiet in the sack. he will talk a little, trying to get a feel of what i like, but i am looking for some sounds of pleasure to come from his mouth, even if they are subtle. now, they are subtle and pretty few and far between. i find myself asking him how he feels all the time…but usually i’d rather just hear it and know he likes what i’m doing. it would also help me gauge what he likes best. anyone else in the same boat? i know some men are just like that (very quiet) but i think it would be such a turn on to hear him. i asked him about it and he just said he doesn’t know, he guesses he’s just focused.
Post # 3
this cracks me up! good post 🙂 I dont like to share intimate information so I will not comment about Darling Husband and I. BUT I understand what you are saying and i agree. too quiet can be awkward but then again too much talking or “vocal affection” can be weird too. lol there needs to be a happy medium! 🙂
Post # 4
@bestbuddies: hahah, well, i was just wondering. i don’t think i have been with anyone who was really vocal, i’d think most men aren’t. if i was with somene who was i’d kind of be like…oookaayyy. lol. THAT would probably be a turn off for me. but at the same time i don’t want to be the only one who can’t control themselves! it seems like it would be a pretty natural thing as to whether or not someone’s quiet, but as far as i can remember i used to be pretty quiet till i met my bf 😉
Post # 5
SO is a moaner now more than when we first got together. I like sexual noises lol They get me going and ever since I have told him that he is much more vocal.
Post # 6
@Winter2013: i’m hoping mine will start to be a little more. i feel the same as you do, i think it would get me going.
Post # 7
Darling Husband is pretty quite like your SO. He makes enough noises and such that I can tell he’s enjoying it but I am DEFINITELY the vocal one in the sack in our relationship!
Post # 9
I wish my Fiance would express his enjoyment a little more. We’ve actually talked about it. Because like, when I’m on top, he just kind of looks at me and breathes. I’m like, HELLO! I’m having sex with you!
But other positions he gets into it 🙂
TMI! Sorry 🙂
Post # 10
Mine doesn’t make a peep…but even more so, I have to laugh at something that may not be so obvious here… And please don’t take offense to it!
kitty + bean and sex. I just find it humorous I guess because my guy always calls mine kitty and asks if he can play with my bean… lmao!
Post # 11
He’s only vocal in certain positions – when I’m the one doing the work. Otherwise he’s pretty quiet.
Post # 12
My guy is moderately vocal. He was much quieter when we first starting getting together, but now that he is more comfortable, he’s a bit more vocal.
Nothing loud, just happy guy noises.
He’s expressed a fear of being that guy. That thrusting sweating graceless guy who goes “HUUUUUUUHHHHH!!!! *pant pant pant* GGGHHHUUUUUUUUUHHHH!!! GUUUUUUUUUH HUUUUUUHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!”
Post # 14
@Gingersnap: Same with my guy!
Post # 15
this is an interesting thread.. I’ll b watching the polls
Post # 16
@Megan316: BEAN?! What an unsexy name!