(Closed) Is your Spouse/FI/SI what you pictured as your "one?"

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Is your "one" what you thought they'd be like?



  • Post # 47
    7809 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 1997

    I’ve always been attracted to a certain type, so the looks department was no surprise. But DH is far less “type-A personality” than other men I had dated, which turned out to make him the ideal father and family man. So he is everything I knew I wanted and everything I didn’t know I wanted, too.

    Post # 48
    2692 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    I said yes but I didn’t really have this real exact pimage of what my “one” wold be like.  Dh comes pretty close though.  The one thing that is different:  he is short.  Like an inch taller than me, that’s it.  I did think I would have ended up with a guy much taller.

    Post # 49
    1516 posts
    Bumble bee

    Yes and no.  I always wanted to be with a man who is 6 ft, masculine, broad shoulders and not skinny, strong hands, etc. and Fiance is exactly all of that.

    But I also wanted a sweet, nerdy, button down shirt, wears glasses, and good boy type – and my Fiance is definitely not that!  I’ve never liked the edgy, wickedly dashing/charming that has women falling left & right, intense, sweet guy with a bad boy side to him – bleehhhh!  But that’s who I ended up falling in love with!

    (I still have a soft spot for nerdy sweet guys!  lol)

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