- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
Our wedding is just under 2 months away, and I am having some issues with my Maid/Matron of Honor, who also happens to be my sister. When I initially asked her to be Maid/Matron of Honor, she was ecstatic. About 2 weeks later, she got engaged to a guy she dated for 3 weeks, and seemed to throw everything else out the window.. She hasn’t been very proactive in helping my BM’s plan a bridal shower/bachelorette party… she told me a couple of weeks ago that she didn’t want to be Maid/Matron of Honor just because she can’t plan anything. I told her to just talk to the BM’s & that they could work together on planning things, because they are very willing to help. They’ve always made it very clear that they would help her with anything that she needs. & today, she tells me that she is pregnant. She asked me, “what if I don’t fit into my dress?” and I just told her that I didn’t know, as I had no idea any of this was going to happen, of course. Now I am seriously wondering what to do.. because her dress fits just right, to where she can’t fit into it if she gets any bigger. If I thought the pregnancy was a possibility, I would have made sure she ordered the dress in a bigger size, but now she is basically stuck with it. And I don’t really know what we are going to do. Also really irritated with the fact that she hasn’t been helping my BM’s.
How would you feel, and what would you do if you were in this situation?