- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
My Mom and I have always had a odd relationship she was always more of a friend then a Mom. Summer of 2003 there was a huge fight and we ended up not talking for a year, she called me one day at the request of my siblings and we started to talk again. Since then it has been really rocky a few months go by and we are ok then she gets mad at something I do and stops talking to me for a few months…really annoying. Anyways 2006 I started to date my Fiance and from the first date I knew it was differnt, after about a month I was pretty much moved in with him. She seemed to like him but he said she didn’t, when I asked her she of course said he liked him but would never come over to our place I would always have to meet her. Whenever my sister or bother does something she doesn’t like she takes it our on me, finally got tired of it and told her off which fixed things for about 4 months then on Christmas 2010 my Fiance proposed to me. I was super excited and was looking forward to telling her once I got to her house, I told my sister and she was so happy but when we told my Mom her reaction was “oh….is it real?”….really?? WTH? (My Fiance had to work so he was not at my Mom’s and she was mad I showed up at 7pm instead of 4pm but that couldn’t be helped bc my Fiance car was in the shop which she knew) I pulled her aside and wanting to talk to her in privet about her reaction, which she then infomed me that she wish I would have waited to say yes…we have been together four years at this point and living together. When I asked her why said said she said she didn’t approve of him, we got in to a fight bc she was talking down about him and I stood up for him. It has been a year and two months and we still are not talking, and she told my sister she is not coming to the wedding and for me not to send her an invite. My fear is she is going to tell my whole family a lie and talk them in to not coming, i told my Aunts and Uncle what happened and they support me. I just want to fix the issues with my Mom before we get married but she doesn’t want to…it’s annoying but I have come to terms with it.