- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
Alright bees…I’m hoping maybe you can help me out with this…long vent sorry in advace..I’ll try to make it as short and sweet at possible.
So Maid/Matron of Honor was super excited about my wedding..of course I was like omg yeah you can be my Maid/Matron of Honor..before I thought it thru. Something happened when I was about 3 months into my engagement…I don’t know really what happened but she just changed I guess?? So here is my list of “issues” with her..
- everytime i try to talk about wedding stuff which isn’t that often she just talks about her and her boyfriends issues how good or bad they are doing
- said she wasnt going to have money for her bm dress. i understand things come up but you knew about this for weeks in advance. she did end up having the money though
- always late to everything that we do…usually because she is arguing/talking with her boyfriend
- i asked her to come to my first dress fitting..she totally disregarded it…said ill get back to you never did. i asked again..she said shed get back..never did
- went for bm dresses and she only talked about herself the whole time and smiled when her dress was on gave no postive input for anything
- i got to try my dress on that day too!! and she didn’t smile..didn’t say anything about the dress not one word–NOTHING. okay i don’t need someone to ooh and ahh over me constantly but come on you’re my moh please act happy!!
- her bf said it was good i’m on a “blogging” site so i can get more valid input from people i don’t know—now what does that mean?!?!?!?! she got this weird look on her face when he said that. also her bf is in the wedding he is good friends with my fi…obviously something was said about me!!!
- i told her in the beginning of all this my cousin wanted to do bridal shower but moh could do whatever she wanted!! can help cousin or whatever, i just didnt wanna know what was going on..so she must have forgotten that i told her 3 times that cousin wanted to do shower…pretty much got super mad that cousin was doing it. but i had kept telling moh to get intouch with cousin so they can talk about details etc…she never attempted to contact her about anything…i mean she should be greatful that my aunt is paying for this and everything i mean i have a huge family… so i said to moh this isn’t meant to hurt any feelings it wll all workout!! she said “it did hurt my feelings but its whatever its ur stuff” with an attitude so what do i say?! I just said “thanks for understanding” this will cause less drama and such and she was expecting a huge argument…she wants the attention i think and for me to act oblivious will get under her skin.
- whenever my bms and i were talking about wedding things moh would constantly interupt to talk about herself and her bf and how they are going to move away or how people are always asking her out blablabla
- we told her where we were going for honeymoon and she just said her and her bf were goin to some island.. its like she must one up me everytime… i mean this seems like jealousy to me it really sucks
i’m sorry for such the long rant :/ this is just a brief over view of everything…i hope i’m not being a bridezilla but i really don’t think i am…she just doesnt seem happy for me..i don’t understand why someone would be so upset about my aunt doing a bridal shower i told her in the beginning about this and that she could totally help my aunt!!! i just don’t know ladies 🙁 any advice?? its like when shes around theres this weird tension—and i really don’t feel comfortable talking about wedding stuff to her cause i feel like shes annoyed!! meh i mean i don’t want someone to stop their life for my wedding..or save all their money for some crazy dress, i just want some support, i want my moh to feel happy for me!!!