(Closed) It all happened so fast!

posted 5 years ago in TTC
Post # 2
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

congrats bee!!!! So exciting and how fun will it be to share the news around the holidays 🙂

My husband and I are TTC and October is our first cycle. I am suppose to get my period the 26th. I POAS last night and it was negative. Maybe too soon? I am unsure.. I am so impatient lol

Have fun and good luck!

 

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

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mexicalijennie:  Congrats!!!  I have actually heard that some women are extra fertile right after they stop BC.  Its like your body goes into overdrive 🙂

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Congrats!  you are so lucky…I should be able to POAS early next week.  I hope I have that luck!  

Post # 6
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Honey bee

I see what you’re trying to do here and I agree that people shouldn’t feel rushed or scared just because some people have a hard time TTC, but this is definitely not going to play out well. The title alone is a tough read on a TTC board. I’d edit if you still can…

Also, congratulations and H&H 9 months

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

This happened to my friend, too! She says that her talk with her adolescent son will be, “We had unprotectes sex one time. And how many children do we have?” Haha! 

Congratulations and best wishes for a healthy baby! 

Post # 8
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

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mexicalijennie: Congratulations! You’re a very lucky lady. You can plan a great Christmas reveal. 

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Congrats!! How wonderful that it happened easily for you.

Whitums anybody who doesn’t want to read her post can just scroll by, no? Everyone’s experiences are valid and every bfp is worthy of celebrating!

Post # 10
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Honey bee

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araneidae:  You can celebrate without making other people feel like crap.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Savannah, GA

I would change your title to “My BFP Story” or something of the like.

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Wow, that’s amazing! Congratulations and H&H 9 months. 

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

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whitums:  it’s exciting and scary in its own way to get pregnant very quickly and women are going to want to talk about it and share their excitement about it. There are more appropriate places here to crap all over people who get pregnant quickly than somebody’s announcement post. 

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I know TTC is a very, very sensitive topic, but I felt this was done tastefully. If anything, it gives hope to people who are terrified that they cannot conceive in their 30s. She’s not rubbing it in anyone’s face, and I don’t think the TTC board is reserved for tales of frustration, fear and heartache. We have to leave some room for joy here, too. 

Congratulations, mexicalijennie!

Post # 15
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Honey bee

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araneidae:  Hm funny, my response to her thread wasn’t remotely bitchy nor did I crap on her joy..I actually congratulated her. But I understand reading comprehension isn’t everyone’s thing. This post isn’t a straight BFP post, it’s also a Public Service Announcement about not being scared cause not everyone has a hard time which as I stated, is a valid point to make. But posting it on a TTC board with the title “it all happened so fast” takes away from the attempt at sensitivity.

OP, you clearly aren’t a jerk and my post is not intended to make you feel like one, but to point out that the thread title can be hurtful.

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