(Closed) It didn't happen and oh how I cried

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 17
13837 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’m so sorry you feel this way.  Just try to relax, and you know it’s coming!  Try not to get your hopes up, and be surprised when it comes!  He’s ordered it, so you know the ring is on its way to your finger!!

Post # 18
2522 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

This sucks, I’m sorry it went down this way.

But I agree with the others; I think he planned to propose on this trip and the ring was delayed. I think it will definitely happen as soon as he gets the ring! Until then, dry your tears! It’s going to be okay. *hug*

Post # 20
299 posts
Helper bee

@Meant2Bee:  I’m sorry girlie. I thought for sure this was your weekend. The bright side is it’s going to happen soon (the female version of soon) so try to relax and call him Boyfriend or Best Friend every chance you get. It’s one of the last weeks you can ever say it.

Post # 21
438 posts
Helper bee

you know what babe if i’d have hiked for two hours up a mountain thinking i was about to get engaged and didn’t id have cried like a baby too!

I hope you feel better I know it sucks waiting but you will get there and at least he has the ring pretty much im sure it will be super special too :] hugs!

Post # 22
206 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I remember the feeling of wanting it to happen so bad and being in the perfect moments and when it didn’t, it felt like he was stomping on my heart. That’s great to know it’s on its way and it will happen soon! Sounds like you have a great guy who is trying his best to keep you patient but yet still have a beautiful proposal. Keep us posted!!

Post # 23
609 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2016

Awwwwwww! ::hug::

I would have definitely cried a lot too. My SO and I have been together for 7 years also. And for sure, we are not getting engaged for another year or so. At times I feel the same way…waiting and waiting and waiting, starting to resent him.

You’re soooo close girl. He’s going to have the ring very soon and that’s light years ahead of some of us bees on here. Just try to stay positive and keep bzzzzy ..and enjoy the time you have 🙂 xxxxx

Good Luck and know that there are many of us who are on the same boat. We are here for you. 

ETA: Don’t forget to update us all! 🙂 I’m sure the proposal he has in store will be wonderful and magical.

Post # 25
2868 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Oh man…I totally know how you feel!!! I did the same thing…cried myself to sleep. We were together for 6 years already. He had dropped MAJOR hints all week and I was looking forward to our date on the Saturday. When he dropped me off Saturday night with no ring on my finger, I bawled my eyes out when I got upstairs.

Then he proposed the next day.

You never really know what their plans are so hang in there girl! It will come!

Post # 26
336 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Oh hunny, I know how it feels to feel resentful at times (I too have been dating my man for 7 years) Hang in there! He said the ring is on it’s way. Hopefully it’s not too much longer now!

Post # 27
88 posts
Worker bee

oh man. *hugz*

i have been dating my significant other for seven years as well, and oh did i cried when all i received was a store-bought scrapbook – it was empty inside! anyway, i’m very excited for you though! he has the ring ordered… the ring is on its way… it’s going to happen!!! *fingers cross for you* i’m hoping it will be soon! i know you’re still waiting, but you’re almost there! good luck!!

Post # 28
806 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

awww!  I had 2 or 3 times when I thought it would happen and it didn’t……man, it was hard.  The last time was a secret date he planned, and when I figured out it wasn’t a proposal I pouted.  Grown ass woman, pouting at dinner later that night.  WEll, he obviously knew something was up, so we had a long talk about it, and the proposal came a month or so after that.  I still feel bad about ruining that date.  Ugh. 

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