- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2014
Good Morning bees!
I started a few threads last week in a complete knot about possibly getting engaged this past weekend while camping with my SO… I didn’t realize how worked up I had gotten.. and looking back it took all of my power not to look through his bags for petes sake!!!
I was so jittery he caught on that something was going on Thursday and suggested we found a beautiful place to sit on the rocks with the sun setting after dinner to chat. I OBVIOUSLY thought it was going to happen. He asked me why I was over the moon excited and asked straight out if I was expecting a proposal ..
This brought us to the conversation and long story short, it didn’t happen but I feel wonderful about our relationship .. still anxiously waiting but not going crazy inside. I am sure I will have my moments but his words about waiting and being happy in the moment and being content and thankful being in the AMAZING relationship that we have is not something to wish away. HE said he is ready and can’t wait to be engaged but there is not reason to get all worked up because it will happen when it happens. Luckily he said that the proposal will come before 2013.
So I was disappointed, but I am also hoping that my story helps other bees who are besides themselves waiting to see that waiting isn’t so bad.. we know our SO’s are the one so try to be happy in the relationship that you are in because it is a beautiful wonderful thing to be in love and waiting for the most exciting part of your life which is yet to come and not near over 🙂