(Closed) It didn't happened again.(vent)

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
5428 posts
Bee Keeper

Enjoy the days with him and he’ll propose when he is ready. And it will be a SURPRISE to you!

Post # 4
334 posts
Helper bee

Try not to stress and worry! 

He has the ring, it is intended for you, so it WILL happen. It might not be this week, or next week, or even next month but it will happen. 

A month or two in the grand scheme of things isn’t long. 

Post # 5
1853 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

My man has had the ring for over a YEAR.


EDIT: The 2nd half of my post was eaten and deleted my weddingbee. Long story short, try not to think about the ring or you’ll go nuts like me. Just know it’s a mater of time

Post # 6
2143 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

He’s probably nervous to propose, maybe he senses your expectation/frustration and it’s putting him off? You should just relax and let it happen when it will, and in the meantime enjoy your relationship with the man you love

Post # 7
502 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

He’s probably waiting until the moment feels right. I would bet that he has been carrying the ring around all of that time. Just try to remember that he already has the ring, and that is a commitment in itself & the proposal will happen soon. My Fiance had the ring for months before he proposed. Try to focus on the bigger picture. He probably isn’t going to propose to you if y’all are fighting or you are upset. Just my opinion. Good luck!

Post # 8
95 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

He has the ring, so it’s not like he’s not planning on asking. He is most likely waiting for the right moment, but if you keep getting frustrated then he may keep postponing it. Stop “waiting” and let him catch you off guard!

Post # 9
2086 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012 - Pippin Hill Farm & Vineyards

We shopped together for a ring on July 7th the year we got engaged. By the way our jeweler was acting, he had already been there a few times. He had the complete ring by the end of that month.

He proposed on November 26th.

There were numerous times when I was sure it was going to happen, but it didn’t. I look back on that emotional roller coaster and laugh.

Enjoy the ride. You know it’s coming to the end soon. 🙂

Post # 10
2576 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

A month? 

That is not bad at all! ( I waited about three months.)

I think by being put out and upset you may end up delaying a proposal longer. It concerns me that you are now saying you don’t know if you want to be engagd anymore! Just because of a 4 week wait?



Post # 11
1075 posts
Bumble bee

After a day like that I would be bummed too. Has he told you by when he would do it? Maybe he was planning on it but chickened out at the last second, I know a couple of guys who have done that. I would give him another couple of months before I made it an issue, I know that the waiting game is rough but you don’t want him to feel like he is only proposing to make you happy!

Post # 12
2009 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would be putting it off too if you couldn’t enjoy a lovely day out with me.

Post # 13
486 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

Aww that really sucks 🙁 I’m sorry *Hugs* 

Post # 14
2523 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I can understand why you’re frustrated. it sounds like it was the perfect day for a proposal! But he might have thought that you might have expected it to happen then, so he might have held back. 

Hopefully he will do it very soon. <3

Post # 16
486 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

hahaha it figures. Leave it to a guy to forget the most important part lol 

So now you know it’s likely going to happen Very soon, my suggestions is forget about it. You’re gonna drive yourself crazy if you think every day is IT. Or, set an imaginary line just for yourself (I just thought of this lol). Pretend he told you he’ll do it ON     X    (Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, etc.)    and if you want even tell him to encourage that date so you really believe it. That way it can be a surprise whenever he really does it. And if he makes a date involving lobstah or just dinner, keep thinking as long as it’s not the X, it’s not happening that night. 


And whatever you end up doing, let us know what works and what doesn’t lol 

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