(Closed) "It doesn't Matter"

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
9097 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

my father is just an ass

If that’s the case, don’t include him?

Post # 4
12 posts
  • Wedding: March 2014

I’m sorry you are going through this during a time which should be the happiest of your life so far! Hugs! Is it possible that maybe he’s in denial of his baby girl being grown and engaged? Men are odd creatures in that they lack the ability to handle emotions in a healthy way. Some get excited, others get wheepy, and then there is the set that acts like a douche so big, they could put Summer’s Eve into chapter 11! One day get your dad alone and talk about it…see what is eating at him. I hope it all works out for you.

Post # 5
10452 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

Well… He’s a guy. He doesn’t care what the place looks like. Don’t take his words too seriously like that.

Post # 6
748 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Who is paying for the wedding? Maybe he’s worried if he looks too enthusiastic you’ll try to hit him up for money or something.

Post # 7
9482 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I’m sorry you’re going through this.  If your father isn’t having any sort of part in paying for the wedding then I would not include him in the planning process.  I hope he does end up coming around though!  

Post # 8
3686 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I don’t have any advice, but I feel for you.  I sent the link to my father with my venue’s website, expecing him to say how nice it looked.  Instead I got a reply telling me to just give him the address of the place so he could plug it in his GPS when he drove there for the ceremony.  

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