(Closed) It finally happened…I had my Bridezilla moment

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1523 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Take a deep breath and let it all go! Stop worrying about this stuff, because as you said it’s not a big deal! 🙂 Enjoy your last few days and let people help you!

Post # 4
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445 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Oh man! Talk about last minute changes! I think I’d be having a full blown meltdown before my Fiance reminded me to breathe! …. I think that’s also why he forced me to hire a week of, instead of day of coordinator actually….he’s a smart cookie somedays Wink…   

I wish you luck! At least it sounds like it will, logistically, work out!! I’m sure your wedding will be absolutely amazing!!

Post # 5
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751 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

We had a few last minute changes like that too and it was soooo annoying!  Just keep breathing and laugh it off.  It’s all going to be ok.  🙂 

Post # 6
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277 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

oh I had one too…no worries.  People are forgiving.  I yelled at my mother in law to be.  She is a sweet lady and got in my emotional crossfire.  Whoops.

Post # 7
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1757 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@HunnyBear: Screw the term bridezilla! Unless you’re an event planner, you’re likely planning the biggest party you will ever throw. You have loved ones coming in from all over the place to attend an event that you’ve been working on for ages. You’re stressed! In any other situation, if someone were planning a huge party and freaked out from the stress, we’d just write it off as normal. But when it’s a wedding, it’s suddenly a bridezilla moment. That’s crap.

Post # 8
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2280 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Here’s to hoping this is the only flip-out worthy moment for the rest of your wedding planning!

For what it’s worth, I can’t wait to see pics of your wedding (we’re dress twins). I’m sure you will have a beautiful day. 🙂

Post # 9
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2532 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Yup this is the time you have to try to let things like that go and pick your battles or choose not to have battles at all because they arent really worth it. The 3 days leading up to our wedding was the most hectic, busy and stressful time in all of wedding planning. However, I still had a great time with my family and friends and there were only a few small instances where anyone would have known that I was stressed! I made a conscious decision to enjoy myself all weekend and to just take everything as it was happening. Honestly during your wedding you wont even remember where couple A is sitting or was originally supposed to sit. It sucks that people pull last minute shit like this before a wedding but it happens so you just have to go with the flow!

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I agree with redherring! It’s just stressful planning a big party like this, and when people make last-minute changes, it’s frustrating! You’re not a bridezilla.

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