It happened again. We lost our baby.

posted 2 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 16
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978 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

I am so so sorry for your loss.

Post # 17
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2044 posts
Buzzing bee

I am so sorry, Bee 🙁 

 

I echo others when I say not to blame yourself and take all the time you need to try and heal. 

Post # 18
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

So sorry for your loss! Don’t blame yourself! Sounds like you did everything right and were super careful. Hugs!!

Post # 19
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1461 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2018

Bee, I am SO sorry. You’ve been through such an awful ordeal and I can’t imagine the pain you are experiencing.

If you really want to have a baby and do not want to try to carry it again yourself, I think you still have so many options. You could find a surrogate to carry your child, if you very much want to have a baby who is genetically related to you and your husband; or you could look into adoption. 

I hope you are able to recover and heal and move forward. ❤️

Post # 20
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Buzzing bee

I’m so sorry for your loss. 

Post # 21
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900 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I am so sorry Bee.  There are no words for what you and your husband have been through.  I’m sending you both all of the good thoughts in the world right now . 

Post # 22
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5917 posts
Bee Keeper

How heartbreaking, I’m so sorry for your loss and what you’ve gone through frown

Post # 23
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376 posts
Helper bee

Im so sorry. I dont know what to say. I am sitting at my desk actually crying for you. You are so strong and so brave. I am thinking of you and hoping your journey gets easier. You’re not broken, you’re not damaged. You’re amazing, and I will be thinking of you

Post # 24
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

Bunnyang :  I am so so sorry, darling… I can’t imagine what you’re going through, but I would feel the same 🙁 I really hope there is a happy ending to this story for you and you Darling Husband <3

Post # 25
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1129 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart is just breaking for you. Just know that you don’t have to decide anything now. Hugs.

Post # 26
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

OMG I am so sorry that you lost two babies so far along! That’s so awful. I can only imagine how you must feel. Be kind to yourself during this difficult time, and know that the Bees are here for you and we care. 

Post # 27
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141 posts
Blushing bee

I’m so very sorry for your losses. I can’t even imagine the pain you’re feeling right now. Sending virtual hugs your way. Please take care of yourself and know that it’s not your fault <3

Post # 28
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2017 - Hagakyrkan

Bunnyang :  I’m crying for you and both babies but fail to find any words expressing my sympathy. Really allow yourselves to grieve!!! This is a loss as hard as any and will require proper and open grieving. Remember that your sorrow is proof enough that you didn’t cause this tragedy, it was NEVER your choice!! 

Post # 29
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849 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I am so sorry about your loss. My heart goes out to you.  I just had my second miscarrage last month and I am still devastated.  Mine was in the first trimester so I can only imagine how hard this must be for you and your Darling Husband.  I wish I could say more to help ease some of your sadness. I hope you can lean on your support system and take time for you and Darling Husband. Take time to mourn . I agree with other posters.  You don’t have to decide anything right now. Take all the time you need to heal. My prayers are with you and again I am so sorry to about your loss. 

Post # 30
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Oh wow, that is so devastating. I am so incredibly sorry.

I know it is definitely not the same, but when we struggled with infertility I remember feeling a similar anger at my body not being able to “do what it’s supposed to”. It hurts to see people around you seemingly being able to do it so easily and feeling like you’re the broken one.

Have you spoken to anyone, like a counsellor? This is such a traumatic loss, and to have it happen twice so similarly, I wonder that maybe a support group or even a counsellor who specializes in this kind of thing may be helpful?

I also think some time with your husband would be great if you can take it. Again, I’m so incredibly sorry.

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