(Closed) It is just me or is this weird?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
7293 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011


That would never work with us! lol

I don’t know about others, but I typically want to shower after sex, so it would be like double the time and water wasting πŸ˜‰

Post # 5
3773 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

@Mrs.Jansen:  That would be some pick up line. “You wanna go shower and then meet me in the bedroom”, lol.

Post # 6
4464 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I don’t know if it’s weird because I know people with a lot weirder personal habits than that, and it is such a personal thing.. but, that wouldn’t work for us either. For oral, yeah it’s nice because..goes without saying. But for everything else, I mean, as long as we haven’t not showered in two weeks and just come back from the gym, it’s pretty much always a go. 

Post # 7
9955 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Whatever floats their boat.

I have to admit that sex does sometimes feels better just out of the shower / bath.  I like the feel of skin-on-skin then.  Certainly so on a HOT summer day.  So I guess I could see some of the attraction.

But it isn’t a requirement.

Lol, although more than one session has gotten started in the shower… even round 2.


Post # 9
3668 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

For some people it’s a religious thing (conditioned to view sex as dirty).

Post # 11
5221 posts
Bee Keeper

I actually like the feel of a hot bath/shower before sex  and prefer it. It loosens up the muscles, I get to shave and smell good and I normally bring a glass of wine in there with me and afterwards I am good to go without feeling like I still have the ” day ” on me!


Post # 12
4275 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I think I would be slightly offended….

Post # 15
248 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I kind of understand it. I won’t kiss my fiance unless he has recently brushed his teeth/had a mint. It’s sort of the same thing. 

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