(Closed) It just bothers me…

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I don’t understand why you invited her if you don’t like her.

Post # 5
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’d be annoyed by this too, but I would have said she couldn’t come to the party.

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

You really should have said no if you didn’t want her there.

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@K. Mac:  This probably would bother me as well. In the grand scheme of things though, you have to try to let it go.

I think she got the message loud and clear when you didn’t invite her to the wedding. At least she didn’t ask to be invited to the wedding part. Or maybe the friend took it upon herself to invite the other girl rather than her inviting herself?

Either way, you probably won’t spend much (if any) time w. her, so on the day it won’t be that big of a deal. If this is the only thing that goes wrong in your wedding, count yourself lucky ๐Ÿ™‚

I am sure she just wants to see people. If she did indeed invite herself to the reception then well I guess it’s a bit tacky, but oh well. She wants to be there – that shows that it’s THE place to be ๐Ÿ˜‰

You still have the ‘upper hand’ – petty as it may be, she still isn’t invited to the wedding portion.

 

Post # 8
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

I definitely would have said no, because when you see here there, you aren’t going to truly be happy about it.

Post # 9
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@K. Mac:   I’d be annoyed, too.  Maybe she won’t come.  I hate it when someone takes me off guard like that, I’m not enough of a bitch, lol.  Us nice girls needs some bitch lessons sometimes.  Too bad you didn’t just say no and now you’re stuck.

But, yep, you have every right to be annoyed.

Post # 10
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2781 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

You shouldn’t have agreed to let her come. What’s done is done, just try to enjoy your day.

Post # 11
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

I would have said no, but because you made the decision to say yes to the person you talked to, you shouldn’t let it bother you. If a friend had to ask you if J could come, J will probably be with the other friend more anyway.

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