(Closed) It just feels….awkward…

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

i must admit that until you get into the practice of it then it will be awkward.  if you lean forward (sort of like laying on him) and then move it will make you feel a bit closer without actually feeling that all eyes are on you.  there’s nothing wrong with being afraid or feeling awkward at first.  but the only way you’ll feel comfortable is to try it to be honest with you and have your honey be gentle and understanding… i don’t think he’s unhappy i think he may be excited with you wanting to try new things…

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

I agree. Practice makes things much better and I have a feeling if you told him your wanted to practice he isn’t going to complain!

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I hear what you’re saying.  It is something that takes practice though.  And some women prefer it once they get the hang of it.  I wouldn’t automatically assume that he’s unhappy with your sex life, he may just want to ensure that you both don’t get bored in the future so he’s suggesting something he’d like to try.  Explain to him that its something you have to get used to and he’ll be more than willing to help, trust me 🙂  And maybe there are other positions you may be able to try?  Good luck

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Once you find your comfort zone, you will be addicted and will want it all the time

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