Post # 1
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Helper bee
So a girl I know got engaged in May. She has a history…let’s put it this way she’s slept with more guys than Carrie Bradshaw, never been in a serious relationship only been screw buddies. She meets and dates this guy, gets engaged. He is totally head over heels for her, and she told some mutual friends this weekend that she doesn’t even plan to go through with the wedding. So why did she even say yes! Fiance and I were talking about it today and I don’t think she’ll even break up with him, I think she’ll go through with it and cheat on him. It makes me so mad that people totally disrespect everything marriage stands for.
Sorry just needed to vent.
Post # 3
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6394 posts
Bee Keeper
Oh wow…that would piss me off too.
Post # 4
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154 posts
Blushing bee
i knew someone like this and yeah..she cheated when she got married. Ive got no respect for people that do this. If you don’t want to sleep with just one person for the rest of your life then just dont get married. Save yourself some money on a wedding and a divorce and save the men some heartache!
Post # 5
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Busy bee
she sounds like she needs help from a therapist.
I wouldn’t have anything to do with someone like that. Can’t stand that sort of character.
Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
I also know someone who did something similar. She was in a relationship with her Fiance since HS. They went to college together, lived together during school and after got engaged and bought a house. They were engaged for about 9 months before he found out that she had been seeing another guy for a year!! She was already seeing this other guy when her Fiance proposed!
For the life of me I cannot figure out why 1) she said yes when she was seeing someone else (or why she was seeing someone else when she was in a commited long term relationship which is something I take seriously even before the ring), 2) why she would purchase a house with her Fiance, and 3) why she would get a dress, invitations, book the venue and basically plan her entire wedding while seeing 2 guys! The entire thing pisses me off to no end and makes me rather angry.
Oh and her Fiance called off the engagement. They sold the house and she is now seeing the other guy for about a year (well 2 if you count the year in secret). I cannot even look at her the same way…
