(Closed) Post Deleted. Thanks bees

posted 7 years ago in 20 Something
Post # 3
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9029 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I dont understand why you picked a dress, venue, bm dresses that you dont like. The shower is something you usually dont get too much of a say about. If your mom is paying for it then she should put her foot down and do it the way she wants. You shouldnt let other people push you into decisions you arent happy with

Post # 5
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352 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@strawberryavalanche:It’s not always true that “if someone’s paying for it, they gt the final say”. If this stands true in your situation, then you either fork over the money and start paying for this wedding yourself or if you can’t afford it, then go to the courthouse, and have a party later on. It sounds like your letting yourself be a doormat. If you want a small wedding, then cut that list down.

Post # 6
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2263 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I agree, in this case I think a ‘no’ would be in order. Just say no. I am sorry you feel you have little control over your wedding, but that’s something you can change from here on out. I’ve learned it’s only healthy to say no to people during the planning process. If I said yes to everyone who tries to help, I’d be unhappy too. Hope this works out for you. I’d suggest starting with having a heart to heart with your Fiance, work with him towards making the day something you’d both enjoy. 

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

wait, so did you delete your post because you’re pissed at the responses that you got? o_O

Post # 8
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11325 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

Wait… did you want opinions? Or did you just want everyone to tell you you’re right?

Post # 11
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2263 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I don’t understand but I hope you realize we just tried to help. 

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@strawberryavalanche: ah, i see. i hope people back off and let you reclaim your day – tell them they’re being zillas! 😛

stay strong!

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