(Closed) it this not girl code? rude?

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1999 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

 I don’t see the issue.  I certainly wouldn’t be offended if I were your friend.  

Post # 4
3281 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I don’t think it’s rude. If anything it should make her even more excited for her wedding! Post away:)

Post # 5
694 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@lovemyrussianpooza:  I dont think it is rude. Its your WEDDING PICTURES, you shouldn’t have to wait. share those with the world! 

Post # 6
138 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

I say post them she gets one day not a week. I dont see how your pics will affct her wedding at all.

Post # 7
4691 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

Not rude.

Post # 8
214 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

I dont think you posting your photos has anything to do with her wedding. It won’t be “stealing” her thunder. Your wedding is over, you are just posting pictures of the event. People will look them over, comment, and move on. 


Congrats on your wedding

Post # 9
165 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

I wouldn’t mind, if she’s anything like me she will appreciate an opportunity to distract herself from her own wedding (and the stress!) and be happy for you. 🙂

Post # 10
2459 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Uhhh no, it’s totally fine.

Post # 12
7455 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Your married…she would be a total pyscho if she thought you shouldnt post pics from your wedding.

Post # 13
6365 posts
Bee Keeper

Honestly, I would give it at least a 3 day buffer. It’s Monday and you said “this weekend” so you’re in the clear if you post them now.

And would every woman see it as a potential slight if it were posted in the days right before her wedding? No. But might some? Yes. Hence the 3 day buffer. Chance of drama in your own life minimized, with almost no effort, is always a win.

Post # 14
1080 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@lovemyrussianpooza:  i don’t think its rude at all you can’t control when the wedding photos come in … just dont post them the day of lol 


i am sure it will take a lil time for hers to come in too so dont worry about it 

Post # 15
674 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I don’t see a problem with it at all.

Post # 16
447 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

It’s your wedding, you got married before her. Why should or would she be offended if you want to share your special day. She will have her day and her pictures will come.

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