(Closed) it’d be nice….

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey bee

Post your wedding progress here and we’ll support you ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

By your FI? Or friends and family? Support is always necessary ๐Ÿ™ 

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Here! Here!  I concur.   I see so many of these posts, I’m beginning to wonder if its too much to expect for people to be happy for us.

 

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I was just thinking this! I get so tired of everyone telling me they don’t like my ideas! Ugh.

Post # 10
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Hugs!  I’m glad to hear at least your Fiance is being great, he’s the most important one.  If your Maid/Matron of Honor and mother can’t be supportive of your decisions you have every right to pull back from sharing your ideas with them as much.  It must really suck having them question and criticize every idea you have, that’s just not nice.  I don’t understand people sometimes, smh.

We would love to see your ideas if you want to post them and I’m sure you’ll get plenty of positive feedback and encouragement from us if you do.  We’re not as good as your Maid/Matron of Honor and mother but we could at least let you know what you’re working on is classy and beautiful instead of putting you down.  Nobody deserves that, especially not from their mom.  So sorry you’re having to put up with that. 

I thought she was going to call a help line when I told her that I wasn’t having Parents come along after the ceremony on location for our bridal party formal photography shots.

Haha!  That’s funny as hell, at least you’ve kept your sense of humor intact.  If it were me I’d come up with some really wacky ideas (fake ideas) and act as though you’re planning to do something you know would really drive your mother MAD, hehe.  Of course, that would be mean.  ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@sleepytime:  yep, right there with you. I am just about done telling any one anything because in the end i honestly don’t care what they think. it’s my wedding and i’ll do what I think is pretty. It would be nice to have someone give some support though.

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@sleepytime:  Are we sisters?   Between MOB and my sisters, I have never cried more in my life.   Everything I do or pick is “tacky”.    All I can say is, I’m not going to cry any more, and BRING ON THE FEATHERS.   

 

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

When I got married back in ’89, I remember my mother threw a fit when she found out she wasn’t coming along to the formal pictures after the ceremony…which was in a nice park near the church.

She got her own back though…me and my new H and the photographer were stuck in said park for an hour, as she’d hijacked the wedding car to drive guests to the reception hotel…

*sigh*

I don’t miss those days at all…

Just remember, this too will pass…

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