(Closed) It’s a free country!

posted 8 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
138 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

How rude!  Is there a way to make it invite only?  We plan on getting married in a local park which yes its open to anyone to come but since we reserved it I plan to have it invite only.  I mean come on the most it will be blocked off from rest of the society is a hour max so I am sure that you can talk to the venue and explain your situation to them with potential party crashers!


Good Luck 🙂

Post # 4
273 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

thats kinda rude and awkward.  i guess if they just want to go to the ceremony thats fine but i dunno.  why on earth would you invite yourself to a wedding that you were not going to be invited to?  i’m having issues getting over how rude that is.

is your reception at the same location?

Post # 5
2186 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

gah! i hope they were joking!!! bad joke, but ugh. really? seriously?

if it helps my Future Mother-In-Law told me “well technically its a church wedding and anyone is invited to the church” ummm no its a CHAPEL which by definition is limited in size, which means no you cant tell your so and so friends to crash and then my granny doesnt get a seat! ugh.

Post # 7
1752 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

That’s weird.. I wouldn’t worry about it though, the odds are that they were just joking, and wouldn’t follow thru with it.  But very werid thing to joke about.

Post # 8
837 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Wow that’s really awkward, but that’s when you say, “I’m flattered you’re willing to pay to attend my wedding ceremony.”  And smile oh so sweetly lol

Post # 9
14 posts
  • Wedding: May 2010

I just had a coworker say the exact same thing to me!  That she was going to find the location and show up to take pictures.  My Fiance thinks they were just messing with me but now I am super freaked out about it.

Post # 10
188 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

That is IMO very very rude! How dare they! I am very doubtful they will turn up but if they do, I would say that constitutes intimidating behaviour and should be brought to your bosses attention. Not on!

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