- 11 years ago
- Wedding: October 2010
I think it hits you the most when the people you’ve known for awhile, and whom you respect, respond with such poor etiquette to a wedding invitation.
10:57pm Me: Hi Tom! Just wanted to check if you got our wedding invitation in the mail.
10:57pm Tom: yup got it. thanks for the invite! when do you need an rsvp by?
10:58pm Me: before Aug 9 🙂
10:58pm Tom: ok, i’ll try to make up my indecisive mind before then. looks like a big wedding, how many people are invited?
10:59pm Me: I think we’re at about 250? It’s mainly family. And some friends
11:00pm Tom: holy man. i didn’t know the dinner place can fit so many people. i think i’ve been there before. it’s an upstairs restaurant right?
btw, which guys do i know were also invited?
11:00pm Me: Greg, Lawrence, Jason, Terence..
11:01pm Tom: no tony or josh? just curious. i don’t want to ask them about your wedding if they’re not invited
11:02pmMe: no we didn’t since we don’t know them that well
11:02pm Tom: ok. hmm, do you guys have the seating planned out?
11:02pmMe: no, we just sent out the invitations. In the process of actually
I don’t know if I should laugh in disbelief or be a bit offended! We were only able to invite a selected few friends to our wedding since it’s mainly family, and we definitely want to have people there that wants to be there. We invited him because our close friend requested it.
Not sure what to do with this guest.