- 3 years ago
- Wedding: June 2015
Hello all, its been over 2 years since I posted my first post here and i’ll still single but, these days, I have 2 years of age to add to that plight. I have somewhat given up on having children and have decided that if I get to a point where I do want that, I will do it, married or not so that’s that.. Here’s my issue today…
I’ve been getting to know my single neighbor for a little over a year now. We have been out on ‘dates’ or ‘non dates’, Im not really sure. He brings me food all the time, whether he has cooked it or picked it up somewhere. He is very nice, even to the point of odering me breakfast on his starbucks app and sending it to my ‘starbucks’ so that I can pick it up on the way to work. He is very involved in his church (I rarely attend). He also made a subtle gesture that we should just get married because we are both thinking of selling our homes and moving and happened to have a liked home in common on zillow. I agreed as we laughed it off and he even stated he wanted a dog which I firmly disagreed on and jokingly stated we’d be divored before teh marriage.
What’s strange is, he brough a plate of food over recently (weeks after the initial marriage joke) and I texted him that my mom said whomever he married would be well fed (he has met my mom and brought her food that day). He texted back “as long as she lets me have a dog”.
I am so confused. I havent dated in over 2 years. Is he interested? If so, why would he not make this apparent to me? He does no call regularly (he does live right next door). He gives me hugs everytime he sees me. He told me that he was shy when we firts met.
Any thoughts? By The Way I am 35 and he is 38.