(Closed) It’s Been a Week…

posted 10 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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296 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2008

Oh honey! I’m so sorry to hear this! I can only imagine the damper this must put on things. Sounds like you are trying your hardest to be there for your Fiance, which is all you can do. And as one of my favorite quotes says… At the end of the day, the fact that we still have the courage to still be standing, is reason enough to celebrate. Good luck and you, your Fiance and your families are in my thoughts!

Post # 4
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638 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2007

I’m soooo sorry to hear this.  It’s an experience I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy.  I lost my father over 4 years ago and my hubby is coming up on the two year anniversary of his mom’s passing.  So we’ve been there.  I still cry myself to sleep sometimes.

I know you are feeling helpless – but just being there to hold your fiance is HUGE!  Listening to him vent, cry, tell stories, mourn.  However he chooses to work through this – just be by his side ๐Ÿ™‚  When hubby’s mom passed – I defintely did more crying than him.  I still do to this day.  That’s ok too ๐Ÿ™‚  No need to be the ‘strong’ one.  Mourn together and cling to each other ๐Ÿ™‚  I won’t say it gets easier – but with time is does become different.  If that makes any sense.

Your wedding day will be hard.  Really hard.  It will also be beautiful and magically – just like you’ve planned.  You’ll miss his dad a ton.  But you’ll also be surrounded by so many friends and family wishing you joy & happiness.

My thoughts are with you guys!! 

Post # 5
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2373 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2008

I’m so sorry you have to go through this.  It sounds like you’re doing everything right…  your fiance is lucky he has you ๐Ÿ™‚

 

   My thoughts are with you, continue to stay strong and grieve with him- it is natural to be sad.  You will get through this, my thoughts are with you.   

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