Post # 16
“I’m left wondering should I break up with him so I can find someone else to marry before I’m in my 30s (who knows how long this could go on?) I’m also left wondering what the difference even is between now and when we’re married since we’ve been living together so long.”
Seriously? SERIOUSLY?? You are thinking about breaking up with your SO of 5 years so you can find someone else to marry?! I’m speechless. Is it HIM you want or just a marriage with anyone? If you are so desperate to get married, why don’t YOU pop the question? You want to be married before 30. You are turning 26 this summer. Well, that’s four years to get engaged and have a wedding. There is time.
Post # 17
I’d say you have nothing to worry about. He’s on the right tracks – don’t forget there’s a big difference between him being emotionally ready to take the next step and being financially ready. I was with my Fiance 4 years before he popped the question and he’s mid 30’s (i’m 28.) I honestly dont think you should worry yet!!!