- 6 years ago
- Wedding: April 2013
I have been trying to decide whether or not to post this because i feel like i have been venting a bit this week, but honestly between holiday stress and the waiting game this week has been tough.
One of my best friends who knows that she will be in our wedding when we finally get married shocked me today. Keep in mind, this is a very close friend that I have talked to about the waiting journey I/SO have been on over the past 2 years. I have confided in her how I have felt during the process and she has been a very supportive and loving friend.
Last night her and her husband celebrated thier anniversary. They have been married for over 6 years. Out of no where today she tells me that her and her husband want to renew their vows on their 10yr, but she wants to do it sooner. Thats great i thought! (They had a destination wedding with few family) Renewing their vows would allow them to have a wedding with all their family and friends.
Then she tells me she wants to do it really soon, she doesn’t want to wait and that she has already started looking at dresses and planning what she would want.
Ok, I am just a bit frustrated at this point….really?? I can’t beleive this. I may be planning my wedding in a few months and she will be in the wedding. I hope this doesn’t turn into her talking about her renewal plans all the time and take away from my experience. Has it gotten so bad that people will be getting married twice before i ever get to walk down the aisle….lol
What do you think about this?