(Closed) It's driving me mad, waiting is so hard!

posted 4 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
231 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

My love apparently has had THE ring for a month. We just had a similar conversation and I was shocked that it’s been in the house and I had no idea.  He doesn’t shop, he doesn’t leave the house after he gets home from work unless I force him out to be social and we touch base a few times during the work day. If he can find time to get a ring, I am sure your boyfriend can! I mean, my love lives in a cave if not at work.  Total introvert.  LOL. 

I hope it does happen on your holiday, but as difficult as it is, don’t go thinking about it and obsessing.  If he doesn’t ask, you’ll just be a wreck the whole time. 🙁

Men hear what you don’t say. My bible is Why Men Marry Bitches by Sherry Argov.  Those little hints we drop, they are not so little. They get them.  Just keep yourself busy and occupied. No marriage/engagement/ring talk! BELIEVE ME, i know it will be difficult but don’t pressure him…you’ll just push him away. 


Post # 3
1954 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Are you sure that he meant he would tell his parents that you are engaged? Or that you are planning on getting engaged soon? Based on what you have said, i think it could be the latter. Not to dash your hopes or anything, but I wouldnt assume he was going to propose in the next few weeks unless you are sure that he said he would tell his parents about your engagement when they visit

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