(Closed) It''s Friday .. Let play a Game… Lights on or Off

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 17
986 posts
Busy bee

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@Mrs. Doily: +1 to this. Normally most things are off but sometimes it’s kinda like nope, let’s do this now, haha.

Post # 18
1212 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

mostly off. sometimes it just happens with them on but if it’s in bed they are usually off. Or daylight is on if it’s the morning.

Post # 19
50 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

We have a 4 year old so lights off…tv on (so the baby can’t hear)

Post # 20
192 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

It doesnt matter! Its all the same to me ๐Ÿ˜›

Post # 21
1578 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Country Club

Lights off! He turns them on sometimes though haha.

Post # 23
5009 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

Usually lights on but whatever works at the time. We’re both comfortable walking around naked in front of each other, so if lights are off it’s just because we couldnt be bothered switching them back on.

Post # 25
1078 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Doesn’t much matter with the lights.  Sometimes they’re on, sometimes they’re off… just kind of depends on the mood/day.

Post # 26
609 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2016

It’s different everytime :). Lights were off last night lol

Post # 27
1810 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Doesn’t matter with us as long as our dog isn’t in the room. I get a little weirded out if my dog is in the room…plus if he thinks hubby is ‘attacking’ me and will try to protect me. Weighing in at 190 pounds…he does a great job of it. lol

Post # 28
56 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Lights off.  We usually have the tv or computer on with soft porn or porn playing ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 29
235 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Usually lights off. I feel less self concious that way…

Sometimes we do it during the daytime so it’s obviously light and that’s fine…that’s usually when we’re having a quicky before one of us goes to work or something.

Sometimes we just have candle light ๐Ÿ™‚

Sometimes we’ll get heated when the tv is on but DH usually gets up to shut it off just before the action really gets started ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 30
619 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

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@Hippos:  There are some things puppy eyes aren’t meant to see! One time we didn’t realise our pup was inside, and I looked over, and there she was, in the doorway with her head tilted, looking at me like “what is he doing to you?”… buzz kill!

Fiance likes lights on, it doesn’t worry me too much anymore, but I looooove lights off… think it’s more the sensory deprivation for me.

Post # 31
43 posts
  • Wedding: November 2016

Mostly on. It’s always spontaneous, and more times out of the bedroom than in it, so whatever music or TV show/movie we have on is our white noise.

If it’s in the bedroom at night and the lights are already off, though, sometimes he’ll want the light on so he can watch me cowgirl it in the mirror. Weirdo.

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