(Closed) It's just a hairstyle…

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 31
315 posts
Helper bee

I will say this as respectfully as I can…. you asked for a response, made a post, and people gave you an answer.  Personally, I think it’s not your place to have  five year old change their hair for a wedding unless it is blue and 3 feet tall.  I understand you may think it will be distracting, but at the end of the day everything else will be the way you want.  I am all for choosing every detail and telling your maids how to dress ect….but this is a 5 year Olds hair, girl.  I promise it won’t matter.  Many bees on here won’t want to trash a mom for not changing her kids hair for a wedding. 

Post # 32
994 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

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rrsims31:  My 6 year old nephew is my ring bearer and I can’t stand his hair cut. He’s got this thing going on where he’s trying to do a swoopy skater do but he doesn’t have the right hair to be able to have that haircut. Would I like him to cut it before my wedding in 2 weeks? Of course but I have so many other things to worry about at this point besides his stupid haircut. And honestly if he likes it why should I make him change it for one day?

Post # 33
461 posts
Helper bee

Asking a five year old to cut his hair is like asking my bridesmaid to take out her tongue ring.

No one is going to notice or care, I’m the only one who even points it out. 

Post # 34
490 posts
Helper bee

Maybe u would expect a bit cleaner cut if it were your son which I agree would look best.. but its your sisters choice letting a 5 yr old decide dont sound like what I would choose but … u cant fix everythin.

Post # 35
1498 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

My 18 year old Brother-In-Law had a Justin Bieber look at our wedding in October. We pestered him constantly to get it done. Do you know when he cut it? January. After the wedding. Yes it was annoying but I’d rather have the photos of him and DH – stupid mop hair or not.

Post # 36
1189 posts
Bumble bee

Another response to say that yes, it’s just a haircut, and no, it doesn’t merit a fight or even another thought. Let it go.

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