(Closed) Its March… Wedding is in June… no Bridal Shower in the works?

posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

It sounds to me as though there’s going to be a shower, but your sister is making an effort to keep it a surprise. (at least, I hope that’s what is going on). 

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Yeah, I have NO IDEA about the invite list for the shower. Could your sister have sneaked access to the guest list in some way? My Fiance is the only person besides me with access to ours (I am member of the Control Freak Tribe, as well), but he could easily get to it if anyone asked him.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Could Fiance be sercetly in on it and passed on the guest list?

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper

i’m getting married in May, and you’d be surprised how quickyl people can come together at the end to throw you a shower! I understand how you feel, We have had an 11 month engagement and it wasn’t until  last week that anyone even asked me about it! Don’t worry– it IS on their minds.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee

I would say that it sounds like you will have a shower….but really, it won’t be the end of the world if you don’t have one (you are already having a bachelorette party and the wedding)….just how I feel about the whole institution.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee

Yeah i totally know what you mean…it was the same way for me my mom/MIL didn’t really get too involved in the whole celebratory pre-wedding processes….rather, they just stressed and worried (mostly my mom) but i didn’t have one and it did hurt, but in the end…they have to want to do it…so i totally get where you are coming from, but from someone who wanted what you want in that department and didn’t get it, it really didn’t matter that much looking back. 

Post # 13
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Sugar bee

@nishaes:  haha sorry i wasn’t clear. some people just don’t realize that these things matter to people more than just getting gifts. in the end i just told myself that people will be involved if they truly care and to the extent that they feel it is convenient. once i realized that, i stopped feeling as hurt because it helped me focus on the things i could control and not worry about who else was excited about my big day. 

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

It does sound like a aurprise shower is in the works. 

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