(Closed) It’s May.

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Awww – we all have days like this, where we cant see the end in sight. But it will be coming!

Just focus on yourself… plan a night with friends this weekend and dont be so available to him. Try something you’ve always wanted to and do what makes you feel good.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I had the moment when that time came and went for me too and now I’m having a long engagement. I assure you it doesn’t matter (the waiting for the wedding) as much as before you’re engaged so even if your projected wedding date gets moved it’s not so bad.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

You should propose to him. You’re obviously getting annoyed and frustrated by this. Stop playing waiting games and tell him that you want to marry him this time next year.

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Have you talked with him about what he’s waiting for?

Post # 7
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658 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

I am in the EXACT same situation..And it sucks! I could have written this (the only difference being I graduated in December):

“I can’t hear “be patient” anymore.  I have been patient for the last 6 months.  The past year, really.  I actually first expected an engagement when I graduated college, which was one year ago.

I want to start our life.

But if he hasn’t proposed by now, there has to be something holding him back.  Something about me.  It is making me so insecure which is just pushing any proposal back even further.

I feel like I am stuck in this big rut and I can’t see when I will get out.”

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - Cedar Lake Cellars

Technically, the summer solstice isn’t until June 21st, so maybe summer means something different to him…

Post # 11
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Blushing bee

Ha ha ha… yes, we do have totally similar posts vlbee!  Is your SO telling you “it’s coming?”

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

vlbee  I honestly don’t have any thing to say for you as I’m in EXACTLY the same place as you at the moment.

Just want to let you know that you are most definately not alone!

 

Post # 14
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Helper bee

@vlbee: I just posted advice for you under another thread started by Elleymae.  Hope it helps!

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