(Closed) It's not coming this December…and I'm okay with that

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

You have such a good attitude. Good for you!

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Good for you for being straightforward and happy about the delay!  It’s more important to be 100% certain, than to have a ring on your finger!

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

It’s great that you’re thinking about this seriously and sensibly, without rushing into it. I’m sure it will be wonderful when you’re both ready to take the next step.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Sounds like a great choice…nice that you two are on the same page!

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

@katlovesjames:  My thoughts exactly. It’s good that you are looking at this in a sensible manner. Nothing wrong with waiting a little longer than you had originally planned. My SO and I were supposed to get engaged twice by now, but we both pushed back that date for multiple reasons. And I think in hindsight it was a great idea since him and I are both very now ready for that level of commitment on an emotional, financial, and mental level that we weren’t ready on before.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Wow. Sounds like you are both being very mature and responsible about this and also have great communication with each other!

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Those all sound like the perfect reasons to wait a bit longer. It sounds like you both take your relationship really seriously, and that things are going to be wonderful for you since you are both willing to put in extra work and take your time on things. I’m really happy for you that you were able to come to this conclusion, and I hope everything goes well for you!! Although it sounds liike you have a really good plan, and a really great relationship. 🙂

Post # 10
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Bumble bee

@Dizbee:  You have a great attitude!!! I so wish I could steal it (or even rent it for a couple of hours). Good luck to you both, and have an amazing time at Disney!

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