(Closed) It’s not my fault I’m getting married first!!!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

uh, she doesn’t even have a date.  I fail to see the intelligence of her argument.  Is your life supposed to be on hold until they decide?

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

You know, my Girlfriend did the same thing to her little sister (“you CANT get engaged before I do”) and it was silly.  Don’t let it get to you.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

Some people are just ridiculous and self-centered.  Don’t let her get to you. 

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Wait? Am I to understand this correctly? She is a marriagable young lady with a dowry of approximately 10000 £ and you were introduced into society before she had the chance to secure a good match with a man of excellent manners and breeding????

Or is this 2012 and she needs to get over herself?

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

That’s ridiculous. It’s her own fault she hasn’t sat down with her Fiance and set a date. She doesn’t have any right to be married before you anyway. Woop-dee-doo, she got engaged first.

 

Post # 9
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

I think your fi is right, you need to let it go. Or, at least pretend like it doesn’t bother you. This is the exact response she wants from you, don’t feed into her nonsense

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@Pixie79:  Bahahaha… I didn’t see this as I was posting. Too funny!!

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

@Pixie79:  perfect.

She’s probably worried that her wedding will never happen, considering it’s been 2 years and she doesn’t have a date. 

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Pixie79:  + a million.

Post # 14
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Stop letting her push your buttons. Your reaction is what she wants. She is trying to suck the joy out of you and you musn’t let her suceed.

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

If she is jealous, she doesn’t need to be, as all PPs have pointed out.  But what other signs of ‘jealousy’ have you seen besides her asking if you are pregnant?  I just don’t like when women say other women are jealous of them because of weddings; that isn’t always the case.

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