(Closed) It's Official: He left me at 31 weeks

posted 8 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 3
6995 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

Oh hun! i’m so sorry you are going through this! I really hope you have some friends or family you can lean on right now and that you had someplace to go? Any man who is going to do that to his pregnant girlfriend is a piece of sh!t. seriously, he is not worth a thing and you are much better off without him. Real men don’t walk away from their problems ((((hugs))))

Post # 4
1713 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2016

My god what an arsehole. You are much better off without him. Are there any family or friends you can stay around with for a while? 

Post # 5
2095 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I am so sorry to hear that. Hopefully you have family and friends to lean on now. I hate to be the downer here but will he deny that the child is his? Will paternity testing be necessary? If so get all your duckies in a row now.

Post # 6
23589 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

*HUGS* Hope it gets better!

Post # 7
5976 posts
Bee Keeper

You poor thing. What kind of a man would do that? I hope you have friends and/or family you can turn to right now, and definitely don’t take that jerk back. 

Post # 9
887 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

I’m so sorry 🙁 Don’t have any advice, just ((hugs)). 31 weeks is a really hard time, try to hang in there!

Post # 10
686 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

This is terrible- at least he left now rather than when he was in baby’s life and it would effect your LO. I’m so sorry this happened to you 🙁

Post # 11
13094 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

How awful!  So so sorry!  What a jerk to just leave his pregnant girlfriend high and dry.

Post # 12
28 posts

@carroll2bee:  I am so sorry to hear that.  I hope you have other friends and family to support you during this time.  Sometimes it’s not easy to understand why these horrible things happen to us at the moment, but when we look back, we understand that it may have been better for us in the long run.  If someone does not make an effort to stay in our lives, then so be it!  You are worth so much and you deserve someone that works hard to keep you and your child.  Don’t settle.  Doesn’t matter whether you’re pregnant or not.  The moment you settle, you cheat yourself from having the best. 


There are good ones out there.  And if this is just a mistake your guy made then hopefully he can yank himself out of it and apologize and have a big explanation for doing that.   I hope it works out for you!! Remember to keep your head up and keep reaching out for help to those around you.  You’ll be amazed at how many truly caring people there are in the world xoxo.

Post # 13
2137 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

OMG what an ASS. HE is NOT a MAN. im am sooo sorry he did that to you.

Post # 14
1115 posts
Bumble bee

Ugh, sorry excuse for a man. Stay strong and lean on those who love you. I’m sorry you’re having to go through this. 

Post # 15
493 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

What a sad sack of human excrement.  I am so sorry you are going through this.  He is not a man – he’s a scumbag coward.

Post # 16
1329 posts
Bumble bee

Honey, look-you are going to be okay. Trust me!!!

I was a single mom at 16-yes, 16 (and now proud mom to a 19 yo about to go off to college for policing) and if I can do it with no help, family, or man around, so can you.

There are wonderufl support groups to help-I don’t know where you live but you can get stuff given to you, charities, get sponsored by a family, and a ton of emotional support out there through groups and programs for people in your shoes.

My oldest son’s dad walked out shortly after he was born. He didn’t want to be a dad, he was 19. He claimed during court proceedings that the child wasn’t his (looks exactly like him, and it is his). The judge ruled against him and I never received a penny of child support, either.

You will get through this, and it will make you stronger!!!!


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