Post # 1
I am in a hormonal depressed sulking cry at the moment. SO and I have been going through a hard time with my pregnancy since it was so unexpected. We after 31 weeks of rollercoaster emotions, he finally kicked me out of his house and walked out of my life. I am just at a loss. Who would do this to a person? Can anyone relate?
I am having such a hard time and I am not emotionally stable at the moment. Any advice or words of encouragement?
Post # 3
Oh hun! i’m so sorry you are going through this! I really hope you have some friends or family you can lean on right now and that you had someplace to go? Any man who is going to do that to his pregnant girlfriend is a piece of sh!t. seriously, he is not worth a thing and you are much better off without him. Real men don’t walk away from their problems ((((hugs))))
Post # 4
My god what an arsehole. You are much better off without him. Are there any family or friends you can stay around with for a while?
Post # 5
I am so sorry to hear that. Hopefully you have family and friends to lean on now. I hate to be the downer here but will he deny that the child is his? Will paternity testing be necessary? If so get all your duckies in a row now.
Post # 6
*HUGS* Hope it gets better!
Post # 7
You poor thing. What kind of a man would do that? I hope you have friends and/or family you can turn to right now, and definitely don’t take that jerk back.
Post # 8
Thanks ladies. Yeah I am so blessed to have my mother and father nearby. They have been huge emotional supports through this rough time. It just doesn’t take the pain away. 🙁
Post # 9
I’m so sorry 🙁 Don’t have any advice, just ((hugs)). 31 weeks is a really hard time, try to hang in there!
Post # 10
This is terrible- at least he left now rather than when he was in baby’s life and it would effect your LO. I’m so sorry this happened to you 🙁
Post # 11
How awful! So so sorry! What a jerk to just leave his pregnant girlfriend high and dry.
Post # 12
@carroll2bee: I am so sorry to hear that. I hope you have other friends and family to support you during this time. Sometimes it’s not easy to understand why these horrible things happen to us at the moment, but when we look back, we understand that it may have been better for us in the long run. If someone does not make an effort to stay in our lives, then so be it! You are worth so much and you deserve someone that works hard to keep you and your child. Don’t settle. Doesn’t matter whether you’re pregnant or not. The moment you settle, you cheat yourself from having the best.
There are good ones out there. And if this is just a mistake your guy made then hopefully he can yank himself out of it and apologize and have a big explanation for doing that. I hope it works out for you!! Remember to keep your head up and keep reaching out for help to those around you. You’ll be amazed at how many truly caring people there are in the world xoxo.
Post # 13
OMG what an ASS. HE is NOT a MAN. im am sooo sorry he did that to you.
Post # 14
Ugh, sorry excuse for a man. Stay strong and lean on those who love you. I’m sorry you’re having to go through this.
Post # 15
What a sad sack of human excrement. I am so sorry you are going through this. He is not a man – he’s a scumbag coward.
Post # 16
Honey, look-you are going to be okay. Trust me!!!
I was a single mom at 16-yes, 16 (and now proud mom to a 19 yo about to go off to college for policing) and if I can do it with no help, family, or man around, so can you.
There are wonderufl support groups to help-I don’t know where you live but you can get stuff given to you, charities, get sponsored by a family, and a ton of emotional support out there through groups and programs for people in your shoes.
My oldest son’s dad walked out shortly after he was born. He didn’t want to be a dad, he was 19. He claimed during court proceedings that the child wasn’t his (looks exactly like him, and it is his). The judge ruled against him and I never received a penny of child support, either.
You will get through this, and it will make you stronger!!!!