Post # 1
I was suppose to stay late at work wednesday night to finish a project but the team pulled it together fast. I didnt even think to tell my now ex-fi I would be home at my normal time. Much to my surprise I came in the door to find him on the couch with another woman. I promptly left with the dogs and heading out to my friends for the night. I just moved out here a few months ago after our long distance relationship. Apparently he had been seeing her during the time away from each othher but not since living together. Im so happy that we didnt buy that condo a few weeks ago and my biggest concern is basically nothing. I hate him so much and his mother is beyond shocked refusing to even talk to him. Im thankful my coworkers have really stepped up these last few days as they are helping me look for a new place and my friends spare room until I figure it out. I just cant believe he cheated on me after everything, in our apartment just months after moving in, on the new couch we purchased last weekend. If he couldnt wait a few extra hours for me to get home I wonder who else he has done without getting caught. Im just so over it and ready to move on once i get my stuff and new place.
Ugh, the man just makes my blood boil
Post # 2
I am so so insanely sorry to hear this, bee. Honestly, this is one of the most level headed posts I’ve ever read about something like this. Definitely take time to make sure you’re doing alright. Don’t let it fester.
I am wishing you all the best for your future. Fuck that guy. What a pig!
Post # 3
What kind of an asshole/moron does something like this, especially after moving in together and especially after an LDR?????
You have all of my sympathy.
Post # 4
You’re well rid! You don’t need a cheat.
You sound so strong and full of self respect and self awareness and I’m in awe of that!
Post # 5
I am so sorry!!!! And to correct you *gently*, he isn’t a “man”. Men don’t cheat, little boys that have entitlement issues cheat. You sound like you have a great support system and I’m sure you’ll get lots of love here on the bee. Hugs!
Post # 6
Hugs!! So sorry, Bee. Keep your head up, and take care of yourself.
Post # 7
it is so good you have a support system in your new town. Keep strong! It sucks but it sounds like for the best. What an a**!!
Post # 8
Good for you! What an idiot.. Glad you realized how beneath you he was before you married him! Good luck and good riddance.
Post # 9
I’m so sorry, bee! Very glad you discovered this before the wedding instead of after. What a wanker!
Post # 10
Oh jeez that’s terrible, I’m sorry! But you definitely have the right attitude – bye felicia. When one door closes another will open!!
Post # 11
- Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA
Better now than after the wedding at least. I’m so glad it sounds like you have a good support network where you’re at now.!
Post # 12
I am so sorry, what an ass!! It’s a good thing you found out before ya’ll got married. Good luck bee!
Post # 13
It’s fantastic to read someone with a good mindset about this. Hate the cheaters, don’t miss them and cry over them… they don’t deserve the tears.
Post # 14
- Wedding: Victoria Wedding Chapel
Uggghhh! I hate cheaters! What an asshole! Good for you for moving on with your life. A lot of women would toil for hours over the decision to leave or not. Good luck in your new future! It’s going to be so much better and brighter without him.
Post # 15
Wow! He was just so completely blatant! I am so sorry you had to go through this nightmare. 😞