Post # 47
So Sorry for ur loss I just had a miscarriage last week and hang in there honey , I know u feel like thi us the end of the world but god knows better and he did this for a reason ‘ 🙁 I am still very depressed but I trusis the I would get pregnat soon ! I hope u do too !
Post # 48
@Sunshine09: I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. My best friend also went through a miscarriage a few years ago and now has 2 of the most beautiful little girls I’ve ever seen. Don’t loose hope, you’ll be a mummy soon! xoxo
Post # 49
@Sunshine09: I am so sorry for you loss. I am 34 and had a miscarriage when I was 7 weeks pregnant. I was totally devastated. I tried to tell myself that it was not my fault, that something was just wrong with the baby and that it wasn’t meant to be. That helped to some extent, but I was scared I wouldn’t get pregnant again. I knew though that I had to try again and find out. At first I wanted to wait awhile (didn’t feel ready), but after waiting the month my doctor told me to wait, I was ready. We got pregnant right away and I am now 30 weeks pregnant with a baby girl. 🙂 While I will never forget the little one we lost, I know when I meet this baby that all the heartache will have been worth it. Please PM me anytime if you want to chat/vent. The bees on the this board were so helpful to me when I was hurting. Hugs to you and your Fiance.
Post # 50
I am so sorry for your loss.
Post # 52
I am very sorry. I Wish I had something better to say, please take good care of yourself. Hugs.
Post # 53
- Wedding: November 2007 - Radisson Hotel
I am heartbroken for you. Please know you’re in my thoughts.
Post # 54
@Mrs Sarah McK:
thanks for that. I will admit that once I knew what was happening and I’d come back from the doctors, I had the biggest cup of coffee and then drank almost a whole bottle of wine. I think mostly in rebellion because I’d stopped all that of course. Best and worst wine I’ve ever had. I’m so happy for you and your new baby after the heartbreak, as I am for everyone that’s gone on to have babies. I hope so badly that happens for us.
Thanks for all the stories and hugs. Really appreciate the prayers and personal sharing. It helps.
Sad that so many have to go through this with no reason. Well actually when I was talking to my doctor trying to understand, she just said ‘your body knows there’s a purpose, and you can trust your body to handle it.’ That’s helping me feel not so guilty, I know I couldn’t have done anything to stop it. Still feels like we got robbed though.
Post # 55
I’m so sorry for your loss. I miscarried a little over two years ago and it was truly heartbreaking. But now I’m a week away from having our first baby! And I just turned 35 a few weeks back, so try not to let your age worry you. 🙂 Lean on your husband during this painful time and you will both get through it in time. (((Hugs)))
Post # 56
@Sunshine09: I understand wehre youre coming from. I lost a baby on Valentines day last year. Its insane that some of the worlds HORRIBLE MOMS are so fertile, and can carry to term. I have a 4 yr old and I really want to have another child after we get married in May. If you need anyone to talk to please PM me..
Post # 57
@Sunshine09: First off, I am sooooooo sorry you are going through this. It’s not something I would wish upon anybody. I miscarried 2 weeks ago (at 8 weeks) and the 2 weeks leading up to the actual miscarriage was the most devastating thing I have ever gone through. When we find our we’re pregnant we imagine being a mom, holding our baby in 9 months etc. We don’t think about miscarrying our baby. After it happened, I was so sad (still am). Why us? We met with my midwife yesterday for my follow-up she told us it was nothing we did wrong (& even though we knew this, it’s always nice to hear). She told us to wait TTC for 1 or 2 months so I have a healthy, soft uterus. And allthough we want to start trying right away (like NOW), we don’t want to go through this again because we couldn’t wait an extra month.
Anyways, I just wanted to share my experience. To let you know you’re not alone and how sorry I am. I don’t have a happy ending yet. But to know I wasn’t alone in the journey made me feel so much better. And I’m hoping all of the support on the bee will help you through this very sad time.
P.S. Hug the hubby extra tight. He truly know what you’re going through.
Post # 58
So sorry for your loss too. Yes, it’s the highest high, to the lowest low.
Hubby and I are closer than ever, just makes us realize how bad we want this.
That’s what makes it so much harder….I know a lot of woman and couples struggle so hard to have children, and then what’s the godly reason for some others just to have a baby so easily? And then waste it by being a horrible parent? (and I work in the social service field so I’m speaking from a point of experience.)
I’m trying to think positive, and take that we were even able to get pregnant in the first place a sign of good luck and hopefully better luck for a full term baby next time.
Post # 59
I miscaried in August, 3 weeks before my wedding and I was heartbroken 🙁 I was 35, first pregnancy….
On September 10, 3 days after the wedding I got my BFP and now measuring at almost 6 weeks! I am turning 36 tomorrow.
Please don’t loose hope, it will happen again!
Sending big hugs your way!
Post # 60
Yeah, my doctor told me that the vast majority of women who have a miscarriage go on to have a successful pregnancy the next time around. It’s definitely a good sign that you got pregnant. Also, they’ve found that fertility is increased for a few months following a miscarriage.
Post # 61
Dearest, don’t despair..was it your first attempt or it just happened?? I had a miscarriage before my youngest daughter (she’s 5 now) and i was devastaded..i was 34 years old at the time. Two months later i was pg again and this time, after a fright at 6 weeks, all went all and had my beautiful baby girl at 35 . You have time and it’s supposed to hurt right now. It WILL get better, i promise and who knows what may happen really, really soon