Post # 62
@Sunshine09: I’m sorry for your loss. I had a positive test at Christmas on Christmas day. We were so excited, but decided to wait and test again two days later just to be sure. So two days later we tested and it was negative. I went to the doctor and they said it was a chemical pregnancy. It was hurtful but at the same time I at least knew then that we could get pregnant. He’s 35 I’m 34. So we kept trying and are now pregnant and everything has been healthy. My sister-in-law was in her 30s and mis-carried the first one, had a healthy baby girl a year later. Then two years later they tried again, and mis-carried. Then they had the second baby. It is possible! I hope my stories help you find some help.
Post # 63
Such a horrible thing to experience, I’m sorry doll. A friend of mine had a MC and went on to have 2 healthy children without any issues, the 2nd one was conceived VERY quickly (read.. not on purpose) and she is in her 30’s too. Best of luck to you, I hope you start to feel better soon.
Post # 64
I miscarried back in April as well. I am so so sorry. I know you want to hear a happy ending and I don’t have one just yet. DH and I are TTC for the first time since and hope to have good news soon.
After my m/c my life was dark, I hated the world and didn’t know if I’d ever WANT to go on to have a baby after one life was lost. The encouraging thing is, I do. I’m happy. I know that someday I will be a mama to an incredible baby boy or girl and when that time comes my heart will be full of love for that little one more than I can imagine right now. Time doesn’t heal everything but it dulls the pain and you are a strong woman to go through this. ( hugs ) to you!
Post # 65
I never heard that before. That’s really cool though. What an encouraging thought!
Post # 66
Agreed with PP – that is a very encouraging thought 🙂
Post # 67
I found this article:
which could be considered tacky but it makes me feel better. Maybe because even the people who have access to the best material things in life are still human and go through this too.
And I never knew that Jay-Z put out a song that tells it straight out that they had a miscarriage: it’s called ‘Glory’ written for their new baby
This line just brought tears to my eyes:
“False alarms and false starts/All made better by the sound of your heart/All the pain of the last time/Prayed so hard that it was the last time… Last time the miscarriage was so tragic/We was afraid you’d disappear but nah baby, you magic.”
Maybe this will make some others who are still waiting for their happy ending to feel better too.
Post # 68
So sorry. Prayers and (( hugs)) are being sent for you.