(Closed) It’s Over. Farewell

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Sorry to hear that ๐Ÿ™  Hopefully you can move on from here, and be happy.

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper

Oh, I am so sorry.  If you need us for support we are here. 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

oh no, I am so sorry. But I am certain that you will find what you’re looking for.

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I am sorry to hear that! I know this must be very difficult for you! But at least you know where you stand with him and you can move on with your life. I’m sure the right guy is out there waiting for you!

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

๐Ÿ™  At least you found out now? 

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

@KS240030: Oh i am so sorry to hear this. Its obviously not what you want to hear. As hard as it is to hear right now, it is for the best. You can move on now and find someone who cant spend a day with out you!!

 

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I am sorry to hear that.  The good news is that you can move on with your life and find someone who shares the same goals and values that you do.  I am proud of you for standing strong and realizing what you need (even if the man you care about can’t give that to you).  If you need a shoulder to vent to, I’m always here.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

omg, I’m so sorry to hear this.  ๐Ÿ™ I know the next little while is going to be a challenging time for you, but I think you did the absolute right thing by standing up for yourself and requesting him being honest with you instead of leading you along.

Hang in there… *hugs*

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Not ready for any kind of commitment? Oy. I am glad you found this out now… if he is not ready for ANY kind of commitment after a year and a half then clearly you were not going to get him to commit to marriage for a very very long time, if ever. So sorry that you are hurting… 

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

So sorry to hear this.  Be happy that you found out now rather than later though… don’t waste time with a guy who doesn’t want the same things as you.  If he’s not sure after a year and a half, he’ll probably never be.  I know it hurts.. I was where you are a little over a year ago, only the guy I was with was maliciously stringing me along and had no intention of ever telling me the truth.  I had to find out on my own.  Be glad that your guy scrounged up enough decency to let you know the truth beore you wasted any more time.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

I’m sorry! So proud of you for asking the tough questions even though you knew it may not be the answer you want to hear. I wish you nothing but the best and hope you find someone whose life goals line up with your own.

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Aww I’m so sorry to hear that ๐Ÿ™ I’m glad he told you now instead of making you wait any longer. We’re all  here for you if you want to talk. It sucks that he waited so long to finally realized what he wanted but at least he was honest with what he wanted and you are free to find the one who will truly love you and marry you. Good luck *hugs*

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Wow. Good for you. No sense holding out hope after a HUGE statement like that from him. You’re obviously a strong woman and I have no doubt you will attract someone as passionate about commitment as you! I’d say “best of luck,” but, I don’t think you need it. Go get yours, girl!

Post # 16
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Bumble bee

I’m sorry to hear that but like a PP said it’s better now than later.  I hope you find a man that treats you the way you deserve.

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