(Closed) It’s Over. Farewell

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 17
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1032 posts
Bumble bee

I am so sorry ๐Ÿ™ Everything happens for a reason though!! I am sorry for your pain, but thank goodness you found out now. 

Post # 18
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37 posts
Newbee

I am so sorry!!!  This REALLY bothers me.  I have been following your posts for a long time.  I realize you are 34 and as an almost 32-yo never married woman, I KNOW I don’t want to waste my time with the wrong guy!  What a shame that he flat out refused to give you any straight answers until yesterday.  I wish men would be more sensitive to this and not take us off the market unless they are serious!  I am angry for your situation but I applaud you for loving YOURSELF more than loving him!

Post # 19
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I am very sorry for what you are going through, but will say it takes a lot of courage and strength to let him go. The right moment will come for you, lots of hugs and good wishes.

Post # 20
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72 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

Oh my gosh, you wrote “the moment of truth” post.  I am sorry to hear he could not step up and make it right, but I am very happy you got your life back ๐Ÿ™‚ You will find your Mr. Right!

Post # 21
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870 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m really really sorry this is the way it turned out. I am glad though that you have your answer and can move on to bigger and better things. I’m rooting for you. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 22
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

I’m so sorry to hear that ๐Ÿ™

Post # 23
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63 posts
Worker bee

so sorry that you are hurting, dear. take some to grieve, and realize that it’s better that you know know rather than 3 yrs down the road.

Post # 24
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687 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Although it hurts now, like all the other girls have said, in the long run it will be better for you. You WILL find someone else who will give you the live that you want and deserve. I hope that your heart heals quickly.

Post # 25
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6350 posts
Bee Keeper

Aww I’m sorry. I wish I could give you a big hug.

Post # 26
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3306 posts
Sugar bee

I am so sorry- I am glad he let you go now and didn’t continue to string you along.

Post # 27
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I’m sorry that it turned out this way.  It is for the best.  You can not be with someone that does not have the same life goals as you do.  Sooner or later the relationship will end and this is sooner so that is good for you.  This may be the best thing that has ever happened to you.  Of course it does not feel that way now but I’m sure you will find someone that will make you happy in the future that has your wants and needs in mind.  I know it will be hard.  Feel free to PM me if you need someone to talk to.

Post # 28
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I am terribly sorry hun! Just find peace in the fact that you did not waste anymore time on/with him than you have so far. I know people get strung along for years! Doesn’t it feel good to be liberated!? You will find the man who is the right one for you. I just know it. Try to keep yourself busy to keep your mind off things.

Post # 29
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2865 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Sorry to hear it. You knew what you wanted and you were brave enough tell him.

At least now you can start to move on with your life instead of having to continue waiting on someone who may never come around. It’s tough at first but eventually you’ll meet someone new, and someone who wants the same things as you.

Post # 30
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383 posts
Helper bee

I’m so very sorry – you’re a very brave girl.  I don’t have the nerve that you have.  You’ll find the right person who deserves you and finds it a “blessing” to ask for your hand. 

 

Post # 31
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1893 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Aw, I’m sorry, that’s not the outcome any of us were hoping for.  Like others have said, though, everything happens for a reason.  You were so brave to put what you want out there and you WILL benefit from that.  You’ll find someone who can’t WAIT to marry you.  Until then, know that you stayed true to yourself.  As long as you did that, there are no wrong decisions. Congratulations on taking control of your life.

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