(Closed) It's over. I was blindsided.

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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569 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

oh wow… from the ring fiasco, running into your ex and now this other gf in your FI’s life?? eekk.. it’s like a movieee!!…. *hugs* at least you know the truth now and not later… hope things will just get better from here.. 

Post # 4
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3552 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I have been following your threads and I am so sorry. I hope you find someone who deserves you.

Post # 5
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1710 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

I’m so sorry this happened!  I have been following your previous threads and wondered how things were going.  Big hugs!!!  Know that you deserve MUCH better than the way you’ve been treated by your ex.  You will get through this hurt! xxxx

Post # 7
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6355 posts
Bee Keeper

Holy crap what a terrible shock :((( This is like a horrible nightmare.

I’m so sorry this happened to you.

About your ex can I just say, thank GOD you didn’t marry him! What a deceptive jerk!

Post # 8
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1547 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

aw sweetie! im so sorry you0re going through this! You deserve better.

The pain will go away eventually, you just need to be patient… and karma will reach him, dont worry

Post # 9
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1710 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

@SnowInApril:  I think if you feel that a weight is off your shoulders, it is a good thing.  Maybe all of these things happened the way they did for a reason.  You can now focus on you and have a fresh start…and don’t think of the years you had with your ex as a waste…just think of it as learning more about yourself and what you don’t want in the future.  More hugs!!!

Post # 10
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817 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I am so sorry this is happening to you. Obviously it’s for the best that you got out before you said “I do”. I will pray for you. There are better things to come.

Post # 11
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6355 posts
Bee Keeper

@SnowInApril:  I’m so glad you sense that too! So do I, just from your OP. You are now free from this heavy rock that has been squishing your life! I know it’s painful but the future looks brighter than ever. He was like a cancer on you that has finally been eradicated.

Post # 12
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7673 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

*Hugs* to you. I know it’s awful at the moment but the bright side is you’ve dodged marrying this guy. I know plenty of women (and men) who have moved on from a 3 year relationship (or longer) and found someone much better.

Post # 13
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2869 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Holy sh*t.  Skimmed what you wrote and had to comment immediately; honey I’m so sorry.  But as everyone will tell you, better now than later.  Be strong. *hugs*

Now let me re-read it in detail. Gahhh.  I want to punch him.

You’re definitely better off without him.

Post # 14
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240 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

WTF.  This story is totally a nightmare. 

Glad that this nightmare has a chance of having a happy ending though cause you are finally finished with this A-hole.

 

Post # 15
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1473 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Everything happens for a reason. You’ll be okay, promise! Just keep your head held up high and move on with your life. Yes, you feel as though the past 3 years have been wasted, but 3 years isn’t a lifetime!

I am SO sorry this is happening to you but I think you really dodged a bullet with this one, love!

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